My older sister kinda gave me a bad rep...
Nobody really likes her...
Because I'm her sister..nobody can trust me, and there all starting to hate me??
I hear people all the time talking about my sister..
They tell me that they don't like her and that shes a B*$%*
I can't agree with them because I love her, and she's my sis..
So that makes them not like me even more!
How do I get there trust back.....
Or should I just move??
I really like this school though!
I don't know .....................
Please Help me!
2006-10-10 07:26:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i'm sorry but everyone who suggested you perform trustworthy acts are foolish and please do not listen to their advice. if people cannot see that you and your sister are separate individuals and they just assume you are like her, then they lost out on getting to know you. you have nothing to prove! if they are that closed minded then maybe its good that you arent friends with them. do not ever think for one second that you have to alter yourself, or prove your character! if you start that pattern now you will constantly change to have friends, lovers...etc. just be yourself. always.
2006-10-10 07:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lin B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it is gaining anyones trust is never easy. It takes time. Don't move, you wouldn't want them to win either. If anyone tries to compare you to your sister just tell them if they are anything like their sister. More than likely they will say no. Siblings are never like one another, they always have to be different. You are your own person. Just show them that you are worthy of their trust. Plus, if you think about it you don't really want people that are going to be talking about you behind your back as friends either. If you aim to just pleasing them you'll never be happy, be yourself. Whether is high school or middle school that you are in, don't worry everything will pass and when you get to college none of that will matter. Keep your chin up, and show them that you can be a great friend as well as a great person.
2006-10-10 07:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by laranita82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you move they win. Just be respectful of there opinions on your sister just simply say I respect your opinions but she is my sister and I do love her and it hurts my feeling to hear you call her names and be trustworthy. Good luck love.
2006-10-10 07:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those who judge aren't worth knowing. Who cares what they think. You are who you are, if they don't want to get to know you, finding out you're not at all like your sister, than why waste time listening to them complain about your sister!
2006-10-10 07:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being trustworthy. Don't matter what others think. Be who you are. Be yourself and be confident in yourself. You will be fine. Your sis is your sis, not you.
2006-10-10 07:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
perform trustworthy acts. folks will soon get the message
2006-10-10 07:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by alanc_59 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋