saying that he can't forget her and isn't over her yet? What's up with that? If I want someone, I am not wishy washy. Why do you think this is? this is confusing.Serious answers only please. * I am the ex..he broke up with me and continues to talk to me, yet still doesnt want a relationship.
**We were with each other Sat and he never tried a thing. so this is not about a booty call, I am lost that's why I am so confused. I thought it was a booty call too. UGH!!
2006-10-10 07:20:04 · 10 answers · asked by beautifully broken 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want him just back off and act like you don't care. Remember the old rule. He who cares the least. Wins. If you do this he will chase you.
2006-10-10 07:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants the emotional attention and emotional feelings that are associated with being in a loving relationship but he doesn't want to be locked into a relationship. He doesn't want to have to answer to you or limit himself to you....he just wants you to be his emotional provider. Pretty soon it WILL be a booty call.
Don't allow him to control your emotions. When he finds someone else to feed his emotions then you will be left hurting and wandering "why" did he do this. "What happened?" "What did I do?" "I don't understand what went wrong." Just when you think ya'll may actually be better the "second time around" and you give it a try....he will jerk the rug out from under you. Not because he meant to hurt you or mislead you, but because there was no solid foundation to begin with. He was just looking to fill an emotional need...and you were the one that he felt comfortable enough with to do it.
2006-10-10 07:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by almonjoy99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rattling, i've got been in that subject formerly... He nonetheless needs to proceed speaking to you because of the fact he does not prefer to lose you and while he's able to be in a courting ..it makes it that lots easyer to come again with you...motives why he does not prefer to be in a courting appropriate now with you is by using the fact he's finding out the waters out attempting to work out what else is obtainable...and he's making use of you as a secure practices blanket in case he can no longer locate something extra suitable... overlook approximately him you decide on a guy that is going to be there for you, do no longer permit him play video games on your heart like that because of the fact your the single that is going to finally finally end up being harm...you may talk on the instant out with him and tell him it quite is Now or never..and if he truly Loves you he gets back with you, yet while he does not overlook approximately him your extra suitable off with somebody who's specific of himself..solid success!
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2006-10-10 07:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have personal experience with this, as I went through the same exact thing.
He is messing with your head, and here's why.
He likes you, but can't come to grips with it. He will string you along for as long as you allow yourself to be strung. I allowed it for 2 years and it was a living hell.
He may even make love with you, take you places, call you often, spend money and time on you, but will keep you just at arms reach. It's agony and it will go on as long as you allow it.
Please don't allow it to go on. Guys like this do not come through unless you do something drastic. Like leave him, and make it STICK. Train him now before he gets you on the hook and leaves you dangling.
2006-10-10 07:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewwww! Break this off now! Fast! Run in the opposite direction! Good Luck!
2006-10-10 07:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he really doesnt want a relationship with you. i know lots of people like that. even i hav had boyfriends whom i didnt want a relationship with and after breaking up still wanted to spend "friend time" with because they were nice people. if it confuses u too much then cut off all ties with him
2006-10-10 07:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real gem. Drop the loser.
2006-10-10 07:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was fifteen I have the same broplems, don't worry you will
grow out of it
2006-10-10 07:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he doesnt want to date any one i think he is either just trying to be your friend or he is gay and is trying to find a way to tell you
2006-10-10 07:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by howdy19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋