ok i have decided that i want to ask the guy i like to go to one of my church activities with me. i think that it would be fun because we are going to a corn maze, but i'm not sure if i want to because there is a high chance that a guy i don't like from my church will be there and i'm kinda afraid of him bugging me and the guy i like while we are there. so any advice would really be appriciated.
2006-10-10 07:03:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest and frank with the guy you want to bring tell him what you want to do what your concerns are and see how he feels about the situation you have just as much of a right to be there as anyone else if your guy decides to go just ignore the jerk eventually he will get bored and go away
2006-10-10 07:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went to a corn maize last year with my church and it was awesome. I think the guy who bugs you will so wound up with the activity and his friends, he probably won't be too much of a problem. Don't make any effort to make yourself known, like loud yelling, laughing or talking. Tell the guy you like about the problem guy so that he at least has a heads up.
2006-10-10 14:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by lauriecherie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the guy you like. Don't let some jerk stop you from having a good time. Chances are that if this jerk see's you with someone else, he'll back off. Most guys are intimidated by other guys.
Even if the jerk doesn't leave you alone, this will give you a good chance to see how the guy you like handles it, and if he has good character.
2006-10-10 14:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will learn that you can't worry about those who bother you. Why should that person stop you from being with the person that you like. Maybe the person you like will defend you and then- hey you got your man standing by your side. Go on and ask the guy and have fun.
2006-10-10 14:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by kelliemag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy you don't care for starts bugging you, then advise him that you are there with someone and would he please be polite enough not to bother you until another time? Ask the dude to the maze.... don't be afraid of what might not even happen....
2006-10-10 14:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ask him, whats the worst that could happen. As for the guy that is aggravating you just try to ignore him or tell him in a nice way to leave you alone.
2006-10-10 14:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the church thing and pray that it will be fine... tell your guy you like that it is a possibility that another guy may try to cause trouble - men like to be your protector and this may make him want to go to make sure you have no problems
2006-10-10 14:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trippin off the other guy, ask this guy you like to go with you and have a great time!
2006-10-10 14:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If the trouble guy bothers you, maybe the one you like will defend you and get him off your back forever.
2006-10-10 14:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beggining avoid that situation.when you will sure for your relationship with the guy you like most, then go head .Forget regression and fear.
2006-10-10 14:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by k.k s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋