You see I thought that I found my true Love my soul mate, but I did not know it at the time. Now I see that maybe she is not the one for me I wish that I could find the love that a person would die for Help…
So can I find lrue love the love that would make me lose my self the real love your love
2006-10-10 06:59:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you can, but you never know when it will come around, for some people it is just a short time, others takes years.
2006-10-10 07:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's the problem, every one wants to fall in love. Give it time, go out explore, shop around, you'll know for sure when it really happens, your heart will let you know. First love yourself before you try to love someone else. Get to know them better,sit down and write down the good things and the bad things and see what you come up with about someone you think you are in love with. Go into it slowly to make sure this is really it. Don't meet on this half way, meet on it together, sometimes let the other person say that they love you first, you can tell if they are sincere. Good Luck
2006-10-10 14:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch.... this hits close to home, so I will try to answer as best as I can. "Can anyone find true love after....?" The short answer is Yes! Can everyone, though? That depends... on you. Having misplaced that love in someone you thought was 'THE' person, only to find that he or she is not, you are now likely left somewhat bewildered, maybe empty, possibly even desparate.
One consolation is to know that as time passes, so too do these feelings. The trick is not to find yourself so empty and desparate to find true love' that you are blinded or confused by the first person who shows you compassion. Instead, allow sufficient time to pass. Only you will know when this is... and may even need to be longer than you think initially. In desparation, one finds a hasty replacement only to invest anew in what seems like the one, often to be - usually, tho' not always - let down again.
In your pain and confusion, you need time to heal and to think, and to refocus. When you get to the point that you don't NEED to think of finding THE one true love, you will be at a point where you feel better about yourself and your life. At that point, often when you least expect it, someone will often notice you for your attitude - the real you, not the depressed you that someone feels sorry and pity for. For some, it's short; for others, it's a long time. It took me almost 3 yrs to get over my 'true love' and while not ever fully over her, I'm able to get on with my life and be positive again. Shakespear is noted for writing: "It's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all." Sometimes, in my pain and recovery, I doubted that and sometimes still do, but with time, I have realized how true - tho' painful - that statement is.
Can you really find your true love.... after.... ? Yes, I believe you can. But be patient, get well. Refocus. Love yourself.
Best of luck to you!
2006-10-10 14:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Zorro Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-10 14:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea of coursse you can but u have to forget about the bad you have in your life because it is a poision ruining your life let it go and look for the cure which a beautiful courgeous women who will make your heart flip upside down with just the thought of her on your mind hey good luck ok and email if u eva need ne thing babynena53@yahoo.com
2006-10-10 14:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think our hearts get opened in heartbreak.
And it may take a long time but I did. So hang in there and heal up and become the best person you can be.
Maryanne Williamson's books and tapes have helped me a lot in this.
Best of luck to you.
2006-10-10 14:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by sweets 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Dr. Phil
2006-10-10 14:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope so, I just recently went thru a bad break up myself. Only time can tell.
2006-10-10 14:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us search a life time... It is probably right in front of you.... but you gotta be willing to work at it...
2006-10-10 14:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋