saying that he can't forget her and isn't over her yet? What's up with that? If I want someone, I am not wishy washy. Why do you think this is? this is confusing.Serious answers only please.
2006-10-10 06:58:39 · 6 answers · asked by beautifully broken 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
easily
he doesnt want a relationship because he was torn and hurt by it but continues to contact her because he enjoys her company
nothin more nothin less
that all
now later down the road if the contact becomes frequent then romance will be in the air
2006-10-10 07:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still in love with his ex, and he doesn't want a relationship with anyone else right now.
You're not going to get him over her. Just be cool with him, understanding, NOT pushy and give him time.
If he likes you, he may begin to like you more. If he doesn't, let him go. Just don't read more into this than is there. He's TELLING you....I don't want to be in a relationship, I had one, I miss her, and I can't get over her. Hear what he's saying.
He's not wishy washy. He's wounded.
2006-10-10 07:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Amy N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being a guy and having been in that situation with a woman...i learned the hard way not to go for it because they will eventually end up right back with the ex...besides you want some one who can give themselves to you as a whole not half..we all deserve to be loved and loved with everything you both have..so good luck honey but if i was you i would move on.
2006-10-10 07:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is as decisive as you are...he is not really over her. Whether it's just an ego thing, not wanting to admit defeat, or it's still some sort of bond, he's just not ready to move on yet.
Give him time...pushing him will only lead to him pushing back, against you.
2006-10-10 07:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he wants the freedom plus a booty call on the side.
2006-10-10 07:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Alibi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he found comfort in his ex and its somthing that he doesn't want to let go.
2006-10-10 07:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by svmanning05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋