I really find that black women tend to take better care of their men then white women. And they are more sexual.
2006-10-10 06:53:18 · 14 answers · asked by BigD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make an issue out of it. And when they meet her if they act strange pull them aside and tell them that you are surprised because you raised them better than that. People are people. (you did raise them better than that didn't you?)
2006-10-10 06:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well dont tell them the sexual aspects but just let them know you have met someone who you really care about. Tell them her name and say shes really nice and treats you good(which should be there #1 concern) and say I know its no big deal but before you meet her I want you to know that she is a black women. And if you raised your kids to know that love sees no color then they will understand and it shouldnt be an issue!
2006-10-10 07:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by CaSeY LyNe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When speaking to your children about your new friend, dont even mention colour. Rather, tell them that you have met a special lady that you would like them to meet. Talk about her attributes..(however, you don't need to refer to her sexuality). The less you make a big deal about it, the less it will matter to them. The most important thing is that both you and the lady are happy with each other.
2006-10-10 06:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not owe anyone an explanation not even your kids you tell them this is what makes me happy and i hope you will be a part of it and if not then I am sorry maybe later on they will adjust if not remember this is your life the only chance you get before you die and then the judgement and I hope you both go to church
2006-10-10 06:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by jk poet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 65 you don't owe your kids any kind of explanation. Women who are maternal or sexy come in all colors,sizes,and shapes.
2006-10-10 06:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its like i've always told my daddy. its just skin. they're people too. it shouldn't matter. i'm mexican and i grew up to be taught that black people are not welcome in our society for some odd reason. but i didn't learn. to me it doesn't really matter. i wouldn't date a black man but thats just because it's out of respect for my family. and white women are nasty. so you're probably better off with the black woman. good luck with that. just don't get with a mexican woman. she will tear u up!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 07:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by sierra r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple, tell them your dating a black woman and if they don't like it? "Oh Well" You're a grown man why do you even need to explain anything to anybody?
2006-10-10 06:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by duane b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any thing would be more sexual to a 65 y/o
yuck
2006-10-10 07:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by di05712 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey kids, this is who I am dating.
I have to go put some cream in my coffee, see ya later.
2006-10-10 06:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at your age i am sure your children are grown and are not babies so just flat out tell them...you have raised them to their majority so you have no need to explain yourself to them or anyone else...good luck
2006-10-10 06:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋