Well my first year of college i was getting over my first bf and love and i met this guy named Matt who was sweet ultra nice /understanding and someone i could talk too but i was not ready for another relationship and his ex.gf had cheated on him and he had issues and was very emotional and depressed a lot of the time.I was also 18 and he was 21and in a band so my parents did not dig this we became friends and dated a little. He later told me he had a drug problem snorting speed , drinking, and smoking. This was a huge turn off and he ended up back in rehab. I met another guy John who i have a lot in common with he is Italian i am Spanish and we both are all about our big familys.It started as a friendship hanging out seeing each other around school and with friends now 6 months he takes really good care of me and makes me feel special.Recently he asked me out but this other guy Matt wants to get back in tough with me and go back out?
2006-10-10 06:14:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel really bad for Matt he says he thought about me all that time in rehab and i do kind of still like him but i feel my friend John and i know each other better i dont want to hurt Matt though.
2006-10-10 06:16:53 · update #1
Hands down, pick the one with the biggest tool.
2006-10-10 06:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Fooled 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Matt needs to do some alone time healing. Take care of him self before he gets into another relationship. Family is very important and you and John have that in common. I think i would Go with John. As for Matt.. still be his friend and be there for him. Good Luck !
2006-10-10 06:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by frankfort_girlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating is not equal to marriage. Matt and you should re establish your friendship that was lost with the drugs and all and then at the same time John and you should enjoy each other's company. Let the chips fall as they may and be a friend first to all.
2006-10-10 06:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should continue dating John cause you would probably be happier with him.It sounds like Matt has had alot of problems in the past and it would be better if you would be just be friends with him at least for now til he is gets his life straightened out.Good luck
2006-10-10 06:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by sweetlittlemama2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matt didnt do it for you the first time so he wont do it for you a second time. Give John a chance cuz it sounds like he could truly be something, unlike Matt.
Good Luck. Hispanic pride!!!
2006-10-10 06:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Boricua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should stick with John. He is the one who can communicate with. you both understand each other pretty much and you both respect each others values. you need to leave the drug head alone and let him continue to be depressed cause it is not your fault that he is in the situation he is in da first place.
2006-10-10 06:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the italian guy. Seems like a good person and that other loser is just that... A Loser.
2006-10-10 06:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by jamz2277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with john he sounds like a real responsible man.Matt sounds like booby brown and you do not want to be miss, Houston
2006-10-10 06:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu arent in love with either just quit with them and find another
2006-10-10 06:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Just make sure you make the right decisions. we can tell you whom to date but ultimately it has to be your decision.
2006-10-10 06:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋