Relieved when your relationship is over? What makes you stay with someone so long, until the thought of never seeing them again actually relieves you? Why does it get to that point, instead of the point where you can end things on a good note, and still stomach seeing the person around from time to time?
2006-10-10 06:07:35 · 10 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think a lot of it is a comfort issue. It's easier to stay with the "known" bad than risk the possibility of something worse. Many people will stay till they just can't stand it, and some will stay even longer. Yes, communication might make things easier, but there are times when even that won't work as the people are incompatible on too many levels.
2006-10-10 06:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Wahrsuul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that people just get into a routine. It is easier to stay with someone that you know than to start dating all over again and have to get to know another person. It sucks but sometimes it takes alot to end something that you know isn't right in the first place.
2006-10-10 13:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make too easy and a bit boring if everything ended the same way, wouldn't it? Most situations and relationships are different because of different people, their personalities, etc. I've felt what you are feeling and have moved on to enjoy the rest of my life.
2006-10-10 13:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to keep thinking my girls had a good side that I could bring out or which would predominate.
I kept getting hurt and they enjoyed hurting me.
You often cannot teach an old dog new tricks.
It can be hard to meet women and easy to meet girls. It can be very hard to meet a quality person that treats you right.
If someone hurt you or you hurt them or both you do not really want to meet given the bad memories triggered take over.
Peter
2006-10-10 13:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in reality, you dont wanna let that person go. You want everything to work out fine. & you don't wanna leave that person. But after so much trying, and trying and putting forth so much effort it pisses you off! & that person is part of the cause of it. That's y...Thank you. come again.
2006-10-10 13:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by NVR UNDRESTM8 KARMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes to fail. People stick things out hoping it will get better. The relief comes when the decision is final and you grieve and move on.
2006-10-10 13:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i now this really isnt help but im going threw the same problem no girl stays with me as long as my friends gfs do but i like my x still and still want to go out with her and se wont tell me the reason she dumped me but if u need any more help just message me
2006-10-10 13:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by superbudz14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's simple, we need love and need to be love by someone so if you find someone that you love,love him and he will love you too,it takes both hands to clap so to have a long relation is not easy,you need to understand each others ,share all the happiness,sadness....together...
2006-10-10 13:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by eZY jOHn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's from lack of communication..
2006-10-10 13:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is different to friendship.
2006-10-10 13:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋