"Don't worry about finding someone because the "right" one will find you."
2006-10-10 05:38:26 · 15 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"God helps those that help themselves."
2006-10-10 05:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by SouthernBelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with the "find" part at all. I have absolute faith that when the time is right, it will happen. Some call it fate, some call it divine intervention. Whatever it is, it's out of the control of mere mortals like us.
I've learned that, the harder I try to MAKE something happen in my life, the more of a disaster it becomes. When I trust that everything will fall into place, it always does - sometimes it just takes longer than I'd like.
2006-10-10 12:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so! It goes both ways. First, don't worry, but you also must keep your eyes open and maybe you are the one who finds that special person. Always start with making friends, good friends and you will find that one you have so much in common with. Don't settle for less!
2006-10-10 12:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That may have been true 50 years ago.
Nowadays, if you want to find someone that's right for you, you have to actively seek them out or they could pass you by.
2006-10-10 12:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realy don 't believe in love finding me. Or someone finding me, we all live in this world to be told that we're loved or we love so if you can't tell that you love how possible is that of Mr/Miss right finding you.Or if you can't be told that you are loved. So tall and be told then you'll find and be found.
2006-10-10 12:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by luwiza m aka bmw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's crap. It is our responsibility to find what we are looking for. No one else knows what we want. Except GOD, but our purpose for GOD may not include our dating life. We have to make good choices and be aware of "who we are" to know what we want...it takes time, truth, and acceptance of ourselves to find a good match that will last. LOL
2006-10-10 12:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by cking_pOise... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, don't look so hard. It's always when you stop or aren't looking that you find the 'one'. I am handing this to you from experience. I wasn't looking and found my lifelong McDreamy.
2006-10-10 12:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sara B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true!
If you just sit there waiting...the right one will never come to you!
Imagine if EVERYONE followed that advise...we would all be sitting around waiting for...well...eachother!
Get our there and make a statement!
2006-10-10 12:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could happen. Don't meet people sitting at home all day watching tv.
2006-10-10 12:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would play it safe, be the one looking! The "right" one won't find you if you aren't keeping your eyes open!
2006-10-10 12:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by Catch a Falling Star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true. its worse when you go out looking for love or attention because most likely you will get the wrong type.
2006-10-10 12:43:47 · answer #11 · answered by bambi..♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋