I went out with a girl and her friends.......?

Question

I went out with a girl and her friends.......?
like one of those trial date things and I was nice to her and she kind of seemed nervous and at one point bent over in her chair. Not sure why. After the date, she gave me a big hug and started being a little talktative with me again, but then she started to be busy and kept making up all these excuses why we couldn't talk, she said one time "Her phone fell in tuna fish"?

Then I finally got the hint, but then I seen her again a year later and she started talking to me again to be polite. What did I do to deserve that bullshit?

Answer 1

you didn't do anything to deserve that bullshit - there's somthing about the way us - really quite nice, when we feel relaxed and non-threatened - humans interact, that in these individual completely unique one-off situations (with all the environmentals and juxtapositions around/within) - there's something about US , that just don't make sense.

Without meaning to, we're basrds and hurt each other - and probly cos we're too shy to say, at the time, EXACTLY (takes some delving) how we're feeling at THAT ensconsed time. I say its ALL about clear COMMUNICATION

Answer 2

It is called immaturity.... She wasn't mature enough to be straight forward and upfront that you just weren't her type...for whatever reason. It doesn't mean there is or was anything wrong with you, but maybe she didn't feel anything there. Anyway, the best thing to do is move on, don't give her anymore of your time. You don't want to be the poor guy who feels strung along waiting for the girl to come around. She isn't worth it because it obviously wasn't a love match.

Answer 3

who says you deserve this bullshit God works in weird ways

Answer 4

treat her the way she treated you...she'll get the hint