Ok, let me reword this & see if it passes guidelines...
Personal preference. Rather than engage in a fave number, I prefer to take turns. I think it allows me to focus on what I am doing then enjoy what I am receiving. How do you feel? Are you absolutely set on that fave number or is taking turns OK with you?
2006-10-10 05:19:00 · 13 answers · asked by laneydoll 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have always preferred taking turns precisely for the reason you mentioned. I want to either concentrate fully on what I'm doing or what's being done for me. Only once in a while when the number comes up spontaneously is it a winner for me.
2006-10-11 03:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a great question and a great weave in and out of X to PG. Kudos to ya. Now onto my response.
There are times when the fave number is great because it is a shared experience. I understand what you mean in that it doesn't allow you to concentrate. Truthfully though, an easy solution is to engage in the fave number and take turns that allows for exchanged focus. Know what I mean? It doesn't have to be the fave number all the time you can half that intermittently. I understand this to be a greater issue for women than men.
2006-10-10 12:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Taking turns is fine. I think when it comes to sex you you just have to go with the flow and enjoy things. There are benefits to that fave number but if one is really looking to fully experience each other then there is also a lot to enjoy to taking turns.
2006-10-10 12:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...I am pretty sure that no guy cares in what order the act is being done, as long as it is being done.
My personal preference, I choose to go first as I like to know my partner is enjoying it, plus...if I do a good a job, I tend to get a good job in return.
2006-10-10 12:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by jayh1969 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like taking turns.
2006-10-10 12:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by daveyboyone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
taking turns lets each of u focus on the job being done,
2006-10-10 12:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jim G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i prefer taking turns to be able to do what you need to be doing and then sit back and enjoy instead of doing both at the same time. unless there is a time constraint that you both want to hurry it up or somthing
2006-10-10 12:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Joe B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
taking turns is great, as u stated u get to concentrate on your partner, i love when a woman goes there to relax an enjoy
2006-10-10 12:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by James R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to do my lady first then I get to have my fun - I'm just practical that way!
I agree about being distracted with the simultaneousity of it though...
2006-10-10 12:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by Dastardly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pub Buddy says:...Taking turns allows you to take as many as you want!!!..Pub Buddy says: I think it's our turn right??
2006-10-10 12:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by Pub Buddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋