Im 20 yrs old and i've been thinkin of havin a 3some with 2 guys. They r not homos or into anal sex (Thank GOD).
Should I reconsider. I've been offered this opportunity by 2 guys and I don't know what to do. It sounds tempting yet frightenin the next minute.
Maybe you ladies can help out a sista or gents might have something to say.
Thanks anyway for the help!
2006-10-10 05:12:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, I have been there & done that so let me give you some advice.
First, all of you need to sit down & discuss how things are going to be. Lay some ground rules. For example, when they "finish" can they do so inside of you or do they need to "pull out". Are you all spending the night? Talk about any thing (no matter how small) that MAY become a problem later. What happens if you and one of the guys ends up together later. Will it cause problems?
Second, I agree with the answer about not discounting anal-it can produce mind blowing results. BUT, you kind of need to ease into that with someone you trust. It does hurt at first and you need someone who will be patient with you. Once you are stretched a little and relaxed about it-it does not hurt anymore. It is kind of like losing yuor virginity. It may hurt the first time but gets better.
Finally, you do what is best for you. Personally I think that whatever happens b/t consenting adults is their business & theirs alone. And, don't listen to the people who tell you that you are going to hell if you do this-you can come sit with me!
If you have anymore questions, email me.
2006-10-10 08:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by laneydoll 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK myself I don't see how the first answer has anything to do with what you asked. Myself I'm not so sure that is a good idea. If you are having second thoughts about it, it sounds like you don't really want to do it. Think of your self respect later. How will you feel? What will they think of you later? How will this affect your life? If you go ahead and do it, will this effect your future relationships?Think of your future husband/children. This something that can really come back to haunt you later on in life!!! It may even hurt your present/future carrier!! Think really long and hard about it before you do anything. Try too weigh out all the possibilitys. Hope you come to the right coclushion for you!! Good luck!
2006-10-10 12:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool but what you have to think about is what you are actually going to do with the 2 guys you have said that non of them are into anal so the big question is are you going to want them both in your vagina at the same time ? think about that b4 you decide as other wise it would just be the same as being with one guy except for that with 2 guys you can keep switching and make the sex last a hell of a lot longer for most guys the don't like doing double vaginal because they don't like there ***** to touch man i hope no one under 16 reads this lol
2006-10-10 12:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by thekonassure 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely give it a shot! MFM can be an amazing thing! I'm 100% straight, but something about watching a woman be the center of attention in a 3some is awesome! It can make things difficult if ground rules aren't set in advance if you are involved in a relationship with one of them. Trust is a must! You make the rules about who goes where (if anal is tried). And definitely determine in advance where you'd like them to"finish". Hey, if you want a third,let me know! :)
2006-10-10 20:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who can answer this question.
The guys will be the ones benefitting most from this opportunity, but only if you accept. You should only accept if it is really okay, and they understand that YOU will be able to back out at any time.
Go with the flow and enjoy it if it the temptation gets stronger than the fear.
If you do it, do it for YOU, not me, them, or anybody else.
Have fun either way!
2006-10-10 12:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by Don't look too close! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are single and not committed and you like sex and having sex with 2 males is your fantasy then consider this:
3some can meet the sexual and emotional needs of all those involved. but each of the persons involved in the relationship must first overcome their jealousy, and must be willing to give equal time to each partner. The best 3some will be between 3 not involved person just for pure sex.
2006-10-10 12:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would love one, My ideal choice would be two females but if it was with another cpl and the femalw was real hot I dont think I would mind another guy there.
And yes it really does sound tempting and frightening, you need a reall strong sense of identity and inner strength, As you will have to live with want you have done.
Still If i got the offer I would prob still say yes
2006-10-10 12:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
When offered in to a 3 some.....and you being the only female....what do you think they want to do to you? Where are they going to put what? I would say no....I'm a one on one person and don't like crowds. It's not just sex to me...it's making love and being intimate with each other.
Also, think of your future...you will have that reputation the rest of your life. Guys do kiss and tell!
2006-10-10 12:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by voandginger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, ignore the religious nutters and guys who only dream of it and watch it on movies, and the women too ugly to get the chance, I do this a LOT, MMF and FFM and I can promise you it is mind blowing. The MMF scenario you are going to do is brilliant you are the centre of attening and the sex is mind blowing. And do not discount the Anal sex, it will blow you AND them away. Enjoy, you are about to enter a fantastic new world
2006-10-10 12:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Girl pray those demons away from you, this will destroy you ..I will definetly ask God to remove the devil away from; In fact as you read this I pronounce in the name of the one who loves you the most Jesus Christ that these demons leave you.... God really loves you and really girl RUNNNNNNNN away from such destruction and ask God to help you.
You are avery young woman and you have so much to live for and the devil wants to destroy you and the purpose that God has brought you here for; let me tell you what the devil will do to you, he will make you do this and then leave you to face the concequences alone and even laugh at you, using the very same peole that you were "playing" with!
"Flee from the devil and he will flee from you"..... you are loved by the most loving being that has and will ever exist and that's God himself and if you ever do this you will have stooped to the lowest of all levels and lost your princess hood because thats what you are to God you know
PlzPLZplz... do not do it, not for anyhthing! I will be praying for you!
2006-10-10 12:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by dobby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋