why do i find it hard to get boys to fancy me?they all go for the really stunning girls.what should i do?

Question

most boys don't dislike me but they never actually fancy me

Answer 1

i fancy you a lot wot is your fav pos plz tell me

Answer 2

First off ''boys'' are just that...and immature with it. They're led by their trousers and really have little or no control over that, so try mixing in circles where bum fluff and pimples are in the minority. Secondly, they also have a uncanny knack of smelling desperation at 50paces so make sure you put out the right vibe.. that you're ready to entertain someone worth while, but for idiots and bores to stay well clear. You sound as tho' you would really benefit from classes in self confidence.. seriously... they really work.. that or invest in a really good book on how to make the best of you. Men are attracted to women who are confident in themselves and their own sexuality... some not overly attractive women are irresistable to men because the ooze confidence and sex appeal.It really isn't all about looks.. it's about how you walk, talk, sit .Give it a go and they'll be falling at your feet- you just have to have faith in yourself that you can do it!! Go for it !! xo

Answer 3

How do you know they don't fancy you? I've always had loads of male friends and fancied a few of them and thought there was no way that they thought of me like that, only to find out at a later date that they liked me all along!! have a litlle more confidence in yourself! Firstly, you probably are stunning and just don't realise it and secondly, it's not all about looks!!

Answer 4

Problem is, most boys go for girls that look attractive and sexy, and ones they can show off to their mates. We are shallow unfortunately, and looks are pretty important for first impressions. If you get dressed up like those other women, you'll stand a better chance and you'll have one over on the rest of the woman probably - a bit of brain too! Just make sure to filter out the idiots who are just after a bit of leg and anything else on the platter.

Answer 5

hi well its not easy to answer that but the thing is guys goes for flashy things and those brither flashy things dont last long thats why the reall man look for much more then the way u look may be u trying too hard remember u got to be yourself by making affort to look good aproves u r a carefull person do that and just be your self that way u meet the guy who gonna stick with u for long time
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Answer 6

The boys you refer to are simply responding to evolutionary programming. Thus they are more generally more attracted to the female of our species who appear to them more physically perfect. Most males tend to share the same preferences in female appearance. The more attractive female selected will more likely assist the male in successfully reproducing a healthy offspring. The lesson here for you, is simply to accept the Darwian theory of natural selection, there is nothing any of us can do about it & that actually life sucks.

Answer 7

There must be someone who fancies you...ugly people get partners aswell....stop hanging around with girls that are better looking than you and then boys will notice you.

Answer 8

get yourself a stunning new hairdo and some new glossy lippie and hold eye contact with people you like for a little longer than necessary. might take a wee bit of practise but try it out anyway. it'll shock you how easy it is to get them to pay attention to you as awell as your mates

Answer 9

Develop your prowess at sucking a golf ball through a garden hose. You'll have to beat them off with a stick.

Answer 10

it works both ways i should know. go for less good looking guys , they will be less shallow than the good looking ones and be nicer people too and u'll probably have more fun with them as they will have some semblance of a personality.