Its me again. I met this guy Friday night at a local bar. We exchanged numbers, names, etc. We went out to dinner the next day. He told me that he was temporarily staying with his mother and 4 other siblings and that he had 2 children ages 1 and 2. He said that he pays child support for both and that he had a Vasectomy because he doesnt want to have anymore. That's fine because I have 1 and dont want anymore either. Anywho, we had dinner, everything was fine. We went to a park, talked a little more and went our separate ways. The thing is, he calls me when he is at work, but not after he gets off. My better judgement is telling me that he lives with a woman, possibly the mother of the 1 year old. The thing is, how do I bring this up to him. I know it takes time to build a relationship but if he cant tell me the truth then what's the point? He claims its crowded where he is and he never gets to use the phone..also that his daughter was dropped off by the mother 3 days ago. ????
2006-10-10 04:42:33 · 11 answers · asked by vivian M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Always go with your gut! If it is does not seem right, it usually is not! Temporarly staying with his mother.....RED FLAG!!!!!!!!!!!!
Move on! You can do better! Way too much baggage!!!
Oh, and when dating you can never ask too much or "research too much on your own". Protect yourself!!!!!!
2006-10-10 04:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh... He is just a random guy you met in a bar? None of your friends know of him? I would go with my instincts... be cautious and keep a certain distance don't get to involved.
2006-10-10 11:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actually believe this crap? If someone only calls you from work then it is painfully clear that they don't live with just their momma! Get a grip girl he is playing you!
2006-10-10 11:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by slow-n-sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to narrow this down and rephrase it... i'm confused,,, but what i did gather he probably is living with someone other than his mother, sounds like a player .. leave him alone, maybe he'll come clean when he gets the message that you don't care
2006-10-10 11:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck on that one...not quite sure what to say except if you are already questioning him then you should probably get out now.
2006-10-10 11:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by gdsgfsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. I think he's really not telling the truth.
2006-10-10 11:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he given you any reason to be suspisious ? If not don't look for trouble !
2006-10-10 11:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instinct don't allow yourself to be hurt be upfront and ask him.
2006-10-10 11:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by Juleette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear the term "Playa"?? You just got one!
2006-10-10 11:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are thinking correctly ask him>
2006-10-10 11:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋