i have been seeing this guy for last couple months and he is great da only problem i have is trusting him. he never gives me a reason not to (he calls everyday and when we're not on da phone, he over at my house), but he still has alot of gurls tha show alot of interest in him and since i have been cheated on before i don't know how to handle it. he says he's not doing anything but how can i trust tha?! he has been wit alot of gurls (and a couple of which he has cheated on), should i trust he won't do da same to me?
2006-10-10 04:37:16 · 16 answers · asked by simply keshia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust has be earned in all relationships.. so go slow and let you relationship build.. keep your eyes and ears open ..and do not be to fast to jump to concluions.its hard i been there ....as time passes you will feel more as ease and look at things differently...just stay cooll and enjoy life ...that the best gift GOD gives us....
2006-10-10 04:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, always be on the alert. Trust him when he's your husband, even then you should keep an eye out for him.
People are sneaky and heartless, either you take that chance and trust completely knowing theres a chance that you might get hurt
or
Not trust 100% and be on guard but dont let it consume and ruin your relationship.
2006-10-10 11:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he known for cheating? Start doing some investigating. If he is always with you then what's the problem. He wouldn't have the time to cheat on you then. Where does these girls show interest in him? School? Well I wouldn't worry about it to much until you have probable cause. Good luck!
2006-10-10 11:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a toughy !! Trust is the main issue in a relationship . if he has never given a reason not to trust him, then i wouldnt worry to much . but then again if hes cheated before ..... that makes it a little more difficult trust your gut and if that doesnt work youll just end up driving yourself crazy like ive done to myself
2006-10-10 11:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by treez1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you heard the phrase"once a cheater, always a cheater" a couple of months is not long ,he may be in it for fun,ask him to commit,it may either scare him away, or he mabye waiting for you to ask.if he want to be with you then he may even ask you to commit,but give it another couple of months see how things work out . all the best :)
2006-10-10 11:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by therealdudeinthechair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! Don't' trust him. Once a cheater always a cheater. I have been through this. I wanted to trust him and he did it to me.
2006-10-10 11:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by sspinnj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. definitely don't trust. He will ditch u for other girls he found better than u.
2006-10-10 11:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by dolphinzzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the benefit of the doubt until he gives you a clue that he doin something wrong.
2006-10-10 11:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by Great Nurse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face facts, you are insecure and damged goods and he is the best shot at happiness you have. Stop whining and start doing stuff to please him or he will dump you xx
2006-10-10 11:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey, you aren't married to him. Until he gives you solid reason not to believe him, you shouldn't worry about it.
2006-10-10 11:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by daj11551 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋