the clinic will contac the people who belong the egg..
2006-10-10 04:24:30 · 7 answers · asked by tunny 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i am not saying that in wouldn´t love, in fact my question is what if that clinic contac his real parent, do i have to return when he born, and when i say other color i mean, i am not his real mom
2006-10-11 04:39:02 · update #1
Are you telling me that since the clinic may have put the wrong egg in you, and the child might be of different origin that you don't want it?
I will tell you what would happen if that happened to me. I would have the baby, take it home and raise it as I would any other child of mine. I have carried it in my body for nearly 10 months and given it life and it would be my child. I wouldn't care what color it was.
2006-10-10 04:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by nana4dakids 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That's like saying......"if my child came out with a disability...do I keep it or give it back".
It all depends on how badly you want the baby. For myself....if, I had life growing inside me, I would feel bonded no matter what...blind, crippled, different color.....
Are you afraid of what people might think? Now....if you wanted your own egg, I suppose you would have to decide if you want to give the baby up for adoption, or discounting life. It's sad either way you look at it. It's a matter of the heart and soul...yours or whom ever had this done. It's not for anyone else to decide except for you. Personally..........I think it would depend on your personal feelings. But...bare in mind, you are accountable for your own actions, their were risk involved (maybe not this particular risk) but...still risks. The thing people don't talk about in abortion type situations, are the after effects. Oooo they counsel you on how a procedure may go...but they don't tell you how you might feel....2, 10, 15 years down the road.
May this child be blessed......no matter what choices are made.
I would think it over for a long time with much soul searching. Do not let those views of others influences your decision.
Good luck to you and or whomever.
2006-10-10 04:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it today with people who dont speak english?
I would imagine that you have the choice of keeping the pregnancy, although I imagine once the clinic learns of the mistake they will make an effort to keep you quiet, or to contact the original doners.
2006-10-10 04:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want a baby bad enough when it is born weather it is a different color or not just keep it, love it, and care for it anyway.
2006-10-10 04:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jim H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What clinic are you going to?
2006-10-10 04:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Moosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you will be carrying it so it is your baby even though it did not develop from your egg. you can keep it.
2006-10-10 04:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by HunnyMommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the baby will grow up to be a poor speller, just like the baby's mother.
2006-10-10 04:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋