me and my husband have been trying for a baby for a year.
I have miscarried twice and had an etopic pregancy.
The docs say i am perfectly healthy and everything is working perfectly with me.
My husband thinks it may be his sperm.
We have tried when i am ovulating , we have tried herbal remedies but now its been 6 months since my last miscarriage and nothing at all is happening.
Does any one have any advice , we have so much love to give and cant wait to be parents.The docs wont do anything untill we been trying for 2 years.
thanks
2006-10-10 04:06:51 · 7 answers · asked by bradderswifey 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Usually after a year they will do something...have both yourselves tested...it may be that you ahve been pregnant that they don't think anything is wrong...have a ovulation test done to make sure that you are really ovulating. If you aren't go on clomid to give you both a helping hand
2006-10-10 04:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to relax, as hard as that sounds.
Don't think of sex as a way to make a baby, ok, so that's what you want but you also don't want to destroy your relationship in the process. I know a few couples that have seperated as they were trying for a baby and the pressure became too much.
Go out on dates, enjoy each others company, flirt outrageously with each other again. It will happen so enjoy your couple time now. Rediscover why you fell in love with each other and have fun. I know as a couple you have suffered due to your miscarriages, emotionally it is a turbulent time for you both which is why I am suggesting a time out. If in two years it hasn't happenend, then deal with it the medical way. Scientific advances will no doubt help you.
Please though, hold on to what you have now, both of you love what you have together, the rest will follow in time.
x
2006-10-10 11:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by boudicea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned that your husband thinks its his sperm, was he tested. The advise i would give you is just relax and have fun trying, dont get to anxious over it. My hubby and I tried for 10 yrs, doctors said that there was no reason why we couldnt concieve. Then we were finally blessed with our first child. We are now on our third. I hope you dont have to wait as long as I did, but im sure the day will come for you and your hubby. I guess it was all in Gods plan.
2006-10-10 15:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by skybluebabyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had an ectopic pregnancy and then I was taking birth control pills after I stopped taking the pill I was pregnant 2 months later. People always say that you are very fertile after you stop taking the pill. Maybe you should try taking the pill for a couple of months then stop taking them and see what happens. Best of luck to you with whatever you try.
2006-10-10 11:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Shay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and persevere...It took us 9 years to achieve a viable pregnancy. the fact that you have became pregnant is an encouragement because it show you can achieve pregnancy.
I don't know if your a spiritual person. If not I encourage you to put you faith in Jesus He will carry Thu this trial and deliver your child not a moment to soon.
If I can share more with you please ask as I do not wish to force my Faith on you
PLEASE BE CAREFUL WITH THE HERBAL REMEDIES. My wife was taking some and they caused her to miscarry
Regardless you will be in my prayers..God Bless You
2006-10-10 11:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes stress can cause all your problems. Try to relax and don't think about trying for a baby when you are having sex. Your married and should just enjoy the time together. Have fun, experiment and just relax, when it's time you'll get pregnant.
2006-10-10 11:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mommyof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get pregnant and have a beautiful baby.
You will be wonderful parents.
Keep trying and don't lose faith.
2006-10-10 11:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋