he says that am a liar .. we have been 2gether for about 2 years and now hes treating me bad but am not even cheating on him what should i do? he broke up with me jus because he thinks da and i really love him
2006-10-10 03:57:04 · 14 answers · asked by Forbidden 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend gets like that too, but overall I know he loves me and he knows that I love him and is very faithful to him.
Look, if you know you are a good person and faithful then that's all that matters. If he dosen't realize that, then he has lost a good thing.
You sound like a great person, and maybe he has been hurt a lot in his past. Let him know that you love him and want to be with him only. That you are NOT a cheater.
If he does not believe you, you have to move on. Just know that you are a great person and deserves better treatment and a good man that will love you and hold you up to the light!
2006-10-10 04:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to see why he thinks that? did you give him any wrong ideas? did he see you talking to any guys?
you have to call him or do something to make sure to him that you do love him and has never cheated on him.... if he saw you with some other guy or anything with a guy make surehe knows what you were doing and who the guy was.....
and tell him tha tyou swear you werent cheating adn went him back. . and if he says no after you tried almost everything to get back with him maybe he just does n't love you anymore and is trying to come up with an excuse that you are cheating on him...
2006-10-10 04:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the problem with your boy friend is that he's the one cheating and he is not man enough to tell you straight out and this is the way, he think that is the best way to call it quit. Wake up and send him to HELL, he doesn't deserve you, you to good. This person is insecure and you have to be careful because if you married him he will abuse you. By the way I'm single and looking for a nice girl, do you want to call me and see what happen.? CIAO!
2006-10-10 04:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why MEN ask their women this question is usually because THEY are the ones doing the cheating and they have guilty feelings.
2006-10-10 03:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by bradnmich2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to talk to him and tell him how much you love him maybe you didn't show im that and that is where he got that you are with someone and cheating on him .........
or maybe its him not you he could be the one that i doing the cheating and he is putting this on you and taking the easy way out you just never know tell you talk to him about it
2006-10-10 04:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suppose the only thing to do there is reassure him that your not, ur fella sounds like the real jealous type and just wants you 2 b there 24/7.if his jealousy anger resentment towards u is continual, then id advise to get out the relationship, u need someone who respects everything u do, trusts everything you do and generally loves u.but if u really truly love him then get him to see someone who can reassure him. good luck
2006-10-10 04:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by therealdudeinthechair 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there has to be a reason he is acting like this. did u go out with one of your "guy Friends" he doesn't like. Did u give him a vague answer to something. Maybe he is cheating on you.
2006-10-10 04:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by dunebugger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....i doubt about what your boyfriends true motive about breaking you up...Maybe he is the one cheating you...He accused you of being a cheater to find way to broke you up, to be free for whatever new relationship he was involve right now.... cheer up...he doesn't deserve you girl!!!
2006-10-10 04:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by anna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was the one who was cheating and rather than him feeling bad and taking the blame he laid it all on you amking out that your in the wrong. Your better of with out him, manipulation is wrong. keep smiling =-)
2006-10-10 04:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Yoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabye he's got some mental issues. My ex-husband was like that. Anytime I would bring it up to one of my family members or one of my friends, they would crack up laughing at the stupid idea. Move on. Why live your life like that?
2006-10-10 04:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋