t m twhat do you do when a guy acts like there was no crack and he posseses you all over again?

Question

hi guys! remember my last story i related about my boyfriend neglecting me? well, now he seems to behave like nothin happened and atimes is suspicious of my movements. he says things like where were you on so so day?, what did u do there, who did you hang out with? did you stay the night there?....he even called me up on a day i was havin the time of my life with ma friends and said he wanted to take me clubbing. can you believe that? really really dears, the intense feelings i had for this there guy have kind of mellowed down just `cos i took time of to ley him be and now, here he comes again actin like nothing happened in the first place. what do you think guys? shud i forget him or stay? `cos he acts as if he`s been therefor me all these while and nothings changed. what do ya think?

Answer 1

It sounds to me like he is trying to control you now. Before long, he may start trying to tell you who you can go with, when you can see them, and where you should go. Or he will get so controlling that you won't be able to go any place without him. I would get out of the relationship before it gets any worse. This is how abuse starts. I have talked to several women that have gone thru husband abuse and this is how it starts, that is what they have told me. Also, if he starts hitting you or using verbal abuse, then he will say, "I'm doing this because you made me do it." or I promise it will never happen again, and it happens again and again.

Answer 2

He does care about you if you spend too much time with somebody you cant figure out what your feelings are so when you spend a lil time apart you figure it out if he came back to his senses he knows now that he loves you....

Answer 3

if he is drilling you about what you were doing...well the guilty dog barks first...tell him you want to talk about what happened and if doesn't want to well tell him to start kicking rocks!

Answer 4

He doesn't care about you.