Love lessons you learned?

Question

What are some of the love lessons you have learned. Lessons that are really important and you are glad you have those pearls of wisdom with you now.

Answer 1

Always go for what I need not what I want. there are 3 things that I need to have when I'm in a relation 1. Respect, 2. Communication and 3. Trust. She needs to have a goal in life. She needs to be smart, funny, and calm. No room for drama. And very important she needs to be faithful. EFIL

Answer 2

Do not marry someone expecting that you will change them. What you see is what you get. Identify all those things you do not like in the other person and decide if you can live with them or not. They may change, and if so great, but more often than not they do not. If you start out spoiling your mate in the honeymoon stage, do not complain later when you "have to do everything". You teach people how to treat you by the way you act not by the words you demand. If you want respect, be respectful. If you want to be loved, be loveable. If you want to be understood, be understanding. Find a person you can walk beside in life not in front of or behind. Do not expect the other person to make you happy. Do not expect to make the other person happy. You both need to be happy within yourselves and then you will enhance the happiness together. Clean out your emotional closet before commiting to a relationship. Everyone has baggage. We must be well balanced and rid our baggage prior to any lasting relationship or it will manifest to be a huge problem later. Set clear guidelines together. When you fight and you will fight...be fair. Never say things to be peronal attacks....stick to the issue. Talk about issues before they become big problems. Never make large purchases before consulting with the other person. Have children only if there are 2 yeses...one no means No. Be responsible with money, it can be the biggest thing couples fight about. Live within your means. Do not smuther one another. Each person needs space. Trust, trsut & trust. Without trust it will never work.

Answer 3

Communication is important and a must. If you do not have it, your relationship won't last or will not be a good one.

Treat the other person as you would like to be treated. I was young and dumb and learned this the hard way.

Answer 4

1- Communication
2- Trust
3- Compromise
4- Love
5- Honesty
6- Respect

Answer 5

There is more than one true love in life. I have had the luck to have 4. I found the last one I will ever have, but it was fun meeting and knowing the others.

Answer 6

A woman is like a vintage guitar, it's a beauitful thing to play, but you have to take great care of them. Make sure you keep them in tune and put new strings on them once a month. Don't keep them in extreme temperatures.

Answer 7

that if someone you think you love doesnt show the same interest, dont wait three years to take a hint and hope that person will love you back.
learn to love yourself and you will avoid putting yourself in such unlovable relationships. :)

and good sex doesnt make a relationship work long term. :)

Answer 8

well okay I'm young but I think I've learned that you can't choose who you love. If you love someone you shouldn't try to ignore it but fight for it and give everything you have to making it work or else you're not really living.

Answer 9

I learned that women are turned on by the potential for danger and/or violence and are therefor attracted to men that have studied the martial arts.

Answer 10

I've learned, that when a relationship is not working, just quit. If you don't things will get worse.You shouldn't do this neither to yourself, nor to the other person.