if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that?
2006-10-10 03:33:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, i think that sometimes we do feel like that and we don't even know it. We can act like everything is fine on the outside and then be really tore up on the inside . Maybe try sitting down and just talking to her or take her out for a drink or dinner and try to get her to open up to you and hopefully that will help you both understand.
2006-10-10 03:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is more than obviously not happy and can't have any self confidence or she wouldn't keep running back to an ex that doesn't seem to want her.
Its not only girls that can act completely happy but are torn up on the inside, it can happen to anyone. It sounds like the early onset of some sort of depression.
There's not necessarily any specific signs to tell if a anyone is feeling like that, I know from personal experience that you pretend to be happy so much that it becomes a very well rehearsed act.
Just be there for this person and in time, if they feel like it, they may open up their true feelings to you.
2006-10-10 10:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by *Care Bear* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I called my ex, but we were really good friends and when our realtionship ended, we had a mutual agreement that we could talk about everything to each other. We were best friends and I hope that we stay that way. Yes, a girl can act completely happy on the outside and be torn up on the inside. Her facial expressions could tell a lot of these. Other than that and asking her for her honesty and hoping that she is being honest, there is no way to tell. Sometimes, women are very good at hiding their inner feelings.
2006-10-10 10:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's still hung up on the other guy, sorry. and yes you can act like everything is ok on the outside but be really torn up on the inside, i've been like that a few too many times. I don't know if anyone can tell, i think that depends on you, your connection with the girl, and how well you can read people.
2006-10-10 10:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is not returning calls or responding to the girls attempts then on his end of the spectrum, things are over. Girls can cover up alot of inside emotions very easily. I mean come on we are women , we are complex and good at what we good. It seems to me that the girl is hanging on to something that no longer exists. The proof that she still feels something for this person is right there, if she's trying to contact him there is still something there in her eyes.
2006-10-10 10:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by DaRkViXeN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well anyone could feel bad inside and b completly happy on the outside. so the only way to know how she feels is to ask her.
b nice and make her feel she can tell u anything.
i am afraid that if u dont know her well she may hide it from u sucssesfully and i thing that mabye she offten needs support from her ex, or judje him as a friend so thats why she look for him.
2006-10-10 10:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The new relationship is completely separate from the old. It is obvious this girl hasn't moved on, which is what I think you should do.
2006-10-10 10:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by amdstreit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think if she is with some one else she should stop trying with the other person... why would she still want to contact the other person specially if he doesn't act on her call. she is obviously hung up on this person... she needs to move on or stop waiting your time, coz her attention isn't where it should be.. on YOU
2006-10-10 10:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is not right, especially if he is not answering
and it is very possible that she looks fine on the out side but i a mess on the inside
2006-10-10 10:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by bissbsquared 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are very hard to figure out and in your case it sounds like she misses the guy if i was you i would tell her if you miss him that much then go back to him
2006-10-10 10:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋