Hell hath no fury like woman scorned?! I know she's on rage right now, so what should I do to calm her down... before she'll do nothing but avenging her unloyal ex-bf?
PS: We live together just the two of us. No parent or closed relative... they all have passed away. As her older brother, what could I do then? I'm 21, she's 20.
2006-10-10 03:27:05 · 12 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell her no man is worth spending the rest of her life in jail. try to spend extra time with her and get her back on the right track. sounds like you have a big heart to worry about your sister like that most brothers would just laugh it off. good for you. hope she gets through it.
2006-10-10 03:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by melanie s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the 1st element you're able to do is verify why you went alongside with the ex. If that's something you want and am no longer getting at domicile, then there are extra matters than a one-time cheating. (in case you have been persuaded and doubtless no longer into it, then you definately could learn how to renowned and stay away from those circumstances. retaining it to the husband could be counterproductive for this reason until you experience such as you won't be able to stay with out disclosure AND are keen to probability dropping your marriage to get it!) extra beneficial than in all probability nonetheless, you enjoyed the ex different than he wasn't a stable service. you're actually in a position the place you do no longer want the ex to be a service, so because it rather is why it became sturdy. He could have been sturdy for you in some way in the previous and that's the reason it became rather common to have those thoughts come out. As to what to do now, it rather is the place your determination approximately despite if or no longer you're getting what you want from the husband. in case you're and you're in any different case happy, tell the ex that became a final gasp element and it is not occurring returned. Then refuse any project that places you and him on my own everywhere. If there is data of the affair... pictures, hickies, a being pregnant, text fabric messages, something... ...it may well be properly actually worth the possibility again sparkling, factor out how plenty the final incident informed you that your husband is the extra beneficial guy and how poorly the ex in comparison on your thoughts of him and to the ex... ...and the husband would purchase that in case you in no way do it returned. in case you're no longer completely happy with the husband, there is not any factor to telling him on the grounds which you're at risk of this comparable element to any extent further. fixing the satisfaction matters on your marriage can help, or you could cope with the tendency to look for satisfaction outdoors of your marriage. If it rather is an occasional fling with the ex that works... ...which could be something you could detect a thank you to do. If that's extra, it rather is beneficial to reassess your marriage and probable end it. sturdy luck, and in case you rather have persevering with matters, please look for a counselor.
2016-12-26 15:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by dustman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, tell her she's in a great place to be in her life. She has gotten rid of the cheating scumbag and now she can start over and make better choices in the future. She's ready for a brand new start. The best revenge is always to be successful. To show him she doesn't need him; she can do much better without him; and then do it!
2006-10-10 03:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her what would the murder of her low-browed ex-boyfriend accomplish. Telll her that he would learn anything from being murdered... because he is DEAD! And ask her... how good would she think she would look in prison garb? LOL Tell her to take out her fury in her art. And move on to great and better things.
2006-10-13 11:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure she wouldnt go as far as to actually kill him just give her time to settle down maybe take her somewhere nice where she can forget about it. but dont start with the many fish in the sea junk that really will make her mad.
2006-10-10 03:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by moon_griffen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her not to waste her time and her furture for such a j**k who don't deserve it,if she will do that will does it give any good benefit on her of course not,she's just going to ruin her life and tell her your just two now in this world she's the only family you have and she must think of your welfares than his ex,so she just have to believe in karma,she's not the only girl who had been betray by her lover,but they don't waste their life for someone who don't deserve it.
2006-10-10 04:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you honestly think she will kill her ex-lover? If so, then I would definitely tell someone who can do something about it. But, if you think she is honestly just angry at the whole situation,then let her cool off by herself!
2006-10-10 04:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the men with the little white coats sorry Im sure i would feel the same way but if you honestly think she is serious i would call someone
2006-10-10 03:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by treez1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her no man is worth going to hell or jail and that all the anger ,hurt, anxiety she is feeling is a part of life and how she deals with controversy is a sign of maturity
2006-10-10 04:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by evian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get over him; there's no point goin to jail for a jerk like him.
She's got to move on.
If she keeps insisting, lock her up in her room, until she calms down.
2006-10-10 03:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by cass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋