My dad doesn't like my boyfriend, but he doesn't like none of my boyfriends. and my dad told my boyfriend that he doesn't want us together no more and told him that he ain't aloud to come over no more and I ain't aloud to go anywar. Me and my boyfriend is still together, but we have to sneek around just to see each other and he can't see me a lot and he was crying cause he can't see me and he was crying cause we might have to break up cause of my dad.
2006-10-10 03:06:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first of all this guy really loves you. And what father likes the boyfriend in any case. Your dad will accept things in his own time. Your boyfriend should have a chat with your father. Let your bf tell him that his feelings for you is strong and that he would like to be official with you with his consent. He should also tell him that even though he put all this regulations for the two of you guys you will still see each other no matter what. He should also tell him that he respects your father and that he would not do anything to hurt his little girl. If your father sees that this guy respects you then your father will have a change of heart. If it is of any solance, I am 22 and I still have problems with my dad telling me with who I can have a relationship with. It is just a dad thing. They feel protective when it comes to their little girls and want to protect them. They also feel a bit insecure because they cannot understand that their little girl is growing up now and that there is another man in her life. Make daddy understand that he will still be the man in your life and that nobody can take his place and that he should support you in the decisions that you make in life and give you guidance. Oh by the way before I forget, you and the bf should talk to your father on different occasions where the other one is not present. Be sure to check me out if you should need any more advice. Best of luck amigo.
2006-10-10 03:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen. This is a quote from a song I love to hear. This song is about things you wouldn't expect to hear about. But, this song prooves anything is possible. "Unsinkable ships sink, unbreakable walls break. Sometimes, the things you think would never happen, happen just like that. Unbendable steel, bends. If the fury of the wind is unstoppable. Never under estimate the impossible." ~Joe Nichols~ Listen to me, and listen good. Dont give up on him, if he cries because he can't be with you that means he loves you with a pure, undying love. This could be true love. He may be the boy you will love for the rest of your life. Don't give up, don't let him give up, either.
2006-10-10 03:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let your dad cool off right now and don't pressure him to like your boyfriend or to accept your relationship with him but you also have to find out why he doesn't like him let him see that he is not a bad guy and that he loves you and he just wants the best for your relationship and tell your boyfriend to tell him that but both of you's be careful with what you's do.
2006-10-10 03:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know what it means if your boyfriend is crying over you, than he's obviously got a lot more emotion tied up in this than you do. Wake up girl! He loves you!
2006-10-10 03:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by Beck 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either he is a sissy or he is one of those manipulate guys that want you to feel like they really care so they can get you to feel sorry for them. I'm sorry but most mean cry in private unless they are trying to be manipulate.
2006-10-10 03:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by Shonreaq G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It just means he cares for you a lot and he misses you. It breaks his heart to think he won't be able to see you.
2006-10-10 03:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Alan J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AH learn to spell!!!! get some grammer help!!! Oh yeah and it means he's a mama's boy.
2006-10-10 03:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has been molested by your dad, and dosent know how to tell you.
2006-10-10 03:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by MazdaMatt 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
it means your boyfriend is actually a girl.
and your father was right.
2006-10-10 03:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by catfish_alomar_jr 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋