i have been with my boyfriend for two years. When i met him, he had a son and his son's mother was pregnant with their 2nd baby, she had an abortion. We borke up a year later, then got back together 6 moths later, when we got back together, she was pregnant again with his baby, and had another abortion. We have been back together a year now, and i jusr found out that when he cheated on me with her, she got pregnant again, this time she kept it. She is due at the end of this month..; what should i do?
2006-10-10 02:55:11 · 21 answers · asked by kjphillips_hines 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he still has feelings for her if he is going back and forth you then her. i would be thinking about leaving him because it sounds like they want to be back together as a family, if he has cheated on you then you should have been left him because hes not gonna stop doing it, dont set yourself up too get hurt. I would tell your boyfriend that you dont feel comfortable with the whole idea. and see how his reaction is, if it dont seem to bother him if he dont have any emotion about how you feel or if he defends her in anyway then you no that you are waisting your time. you dont have to put up with that. Good Luck To You
2006-10-10 03:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by mstycain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blimey! thats hard. Do you still love him and could you forgive him? Do you know why he cheated with her and why he keeps going back to her? You need to find the answers to these questions and see if you can make it work bearing in mind you will have to live with knowing that the baby was concieved when he cheated on you? Only you can make this decision. Good luck.
2006-10-10 02:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you assert you preserve this lady. have you ever heard of the expression " Love me, love my canine"? no person in this existence escapes without bags to hold. Do you somewhat love her?? Or have you ever purely attatched your self to a perfect?? Her little one would be a huge area of her existence, in case you decide on no area of the little one then you truthfully relatively do not choose to be with this lady. Is she comming back homestead at each time or is she staying foreign places? would you connect her if she asked you too? tell her you are able to not help her. you at the instant are not doing her any favors. discover out how she feels approximately you presently and for pity's sake remember the little one she has had not something to do with you.
2016-12-16 05:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surly you would not have gone back the first time. heh
This is an easy one. Move your sorry *** to the next fork in the road and go the direction your so called man is not.
2006-10-10 03:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a loser! You don't need all that drama. There is better men out there. Tell him if he wants to fu.k her so bad then go be with her. Seriously..you'll never be happy wondering all the time if he is doing it again or not. You'll never be at peace..L.
2006-10-10 03:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by ben and lisa h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. That relationship is not over and won't be anytime soon. I know its tough, but its just going to keep being painful if you stay with him.
2006-10-10 02:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by pag2809 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick the man to the curb, its over, he cheated on you and it was his EX girl dont do this to yourself-leave him tell him its over and you dont want to have anything to do with him.
2006-10-10 03:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Princess P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it cause *hit happens! Find you a man who is gonna want to be with you only! Plus you got to think about your health. obviously he didn't use protection, and who else has she been with while she ain't with him. Think about it!
2006-10-10 03:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by sexycat_1984 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is he like the only man in the world for you??? If you dont mind sharing him...than its all good 4 u....good luck being the other women in that loser's life...
2006-10-10 03:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by nfocuz00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. Why would you want someone who can't be faithful? Obviously she has something he wants, he gets it often enough. Surely, you can do better than a lying cheater.
2006-10-10 02:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by lovelyncurvy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋