I met this guy on the internet and i'm falling for him in a big way the only problem is i don't really know him. me and my boyfriend have just split up and i don't want to just jump back in to a relationship stait away, well i don't know what he wants! we talk about everything and i'm just so unsure! we have never mentioned sex or anything. he says when we know each other better we could meet up but is thats risky to. AAAHHH help i'm so confused!
2006-10-10 02:47:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you haven't even met the guy face to face, how can you be so sure that you're 'falling for him'? And....if you do meet him at some point in the future and are 'creeped' out for whatever reason...you could be embarrassed by what you've confided to him already. If it's been a month or so since you've been corresponding and/or talking and you haven't met him...I'd wonder why he doesn't want to meet you yet. There is too much you don't know at this point to think you're falling for him. You're vulnerable (and probably lonely) since you broke up with your boyfriend...please be careful. This could be a fantasy you're playing out. As far as the risk associating with meeting him....be mindful of safety, let someone know where you're meeting him at, meet at a neutral place, make sure you have your cell phone with you, and whatever you do don't take him to your house or go to his until you know a whole lot more than you do now. The fact he hasn't brought up sexual subjects is encouraging--that would be very inappropriate at this stage. Be careful girlfriend.
2006-10-10 02:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry it s sure risky.. and if u have question marks all around, it means there is a problem. stay away from sex related speeches.
on the other hand, even people have these kind of problems in face-to-face.
so just meet him but i m not on the side of online relations anyway...get someone u know better around u !!!
2006-10-10 03:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to meet him and i suppose you have to if you want to get to know someone,ask your mates to go to the same place that you are and ask them to sit at a distance and not make out they know you,that way you will have sense of security,also don't be fooled by a nice guy who asks you to go somewhere else,stay at the same place leave well after he has left.You have to think that this person could be not who they say they are that way you will keep your wits about you,also don't drink to much that can cloud judgement.
2006-10-10 03:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have some your time to make an clear decisions and decide if you want to move on in a month and it gives you chance to get to know the person from the internet site more
2006-10-10 02:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_hot_relaxed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah hell its no more risky than meeting up with a guy that you snogged in a nightclub or whatever!!! Go for it - just be safe - meet him in a public place and dont bring him to your house or anything where he could start getting weird with you! Good luck XX
2006-10-10 04:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, do what ever feels right, the same happened to me just afew months ago, and my life has never been better, i'm so happy, and we have so many plans, we are looking forward to a long happy life together!
2006-10-10 03:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by Clare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and Meet a real boy.
2006-10-10 02:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is definately risky, suggest you meet in public and tell someone where you are going and keep in text touch will them at all times for your own safety
2006-10-10 02:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear!!! if you like him that much and trust him go for it and meet up but no sex!! jst tlkin to get to know eachother properly as mates then see what happends good luck!! xxx
2006-10-10 04:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by devil at work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him first!
2006-10-10 02:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by hottie22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋