my friend is in love and they both had a date receantly but once i was passing through our college cafeteria and heard that boy saying to his friend that what he want from my friend is only sex............... and worst of all my friend is so deep in his love that she dont believe me how can i save her life from getting spoilt plz help
2006-10-10 02:42:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U r a very good and loyal friend to tell her ur concern...
Tell her that u want her to be happy but tell her u only care for her...
Sometimes it is best to keep out of ur friend's personal relationships and let them work this out themselves..
sometimes boys can say things which they don't really mean....they just want to look cool in front of their friends...
But....most likely...this sounds like u r right to be worried and it could be possible that this boy only wants to have sex with ur friend...
She is old enough to make these decisions herself and she is very lucky to have a good friend like u by her side.
So...i feel u r better off just keeping out of it and let her learn the hard way...
Just be a good friend and be there if she needs ur support...
Good luck!
2006-10-11 04:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pardon my asserting so, yet you're particularly insensitive and egocentric to ask this question. So whilst issues get a sprint tough you bail?! guy, if i replaced into that dude I wouldnt want you around the two. The dude misplaced his father purely a month in the past! have you ever misplaced a ascertain? it is not an basic element to handle. Do you think of hes only meant to cry for a jiffy in February then provide all of his interest to you? a ingredient of this boy has only crumbled to airborne dirt and mud and left his soul. this is in all possibility only commencing to sink in. It takes a mutually as, sweetheart. perhaps the excellent element which you would be able to do is tutor him what a heartless cretin you're and break up with him so he can come across a human female who has a human coronary heart and a head packed with recommendations.
2016-10-19 03:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her hear what he has to say for himself. You're not on private grounds. Take a little tape recorder like the kind they use to record college lectures on for absent students to review later. Record him in the act in a covert way with his friend and him talking about it. It's only illegal if you record him on his own property, use his recordings as blackmail or as marketing resources. Don't let them know you're even onto anything. Sit at a nearby table and record it. Reach in your pack or whatever you carry with you and don't let the recorder show in any way. Don't look at them at all, not even a glance out of the corner of your eye. If they so much as catch you glancing in any way, they could gain suspicions about you.
2006-10-10 03:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lady,
There are two ways to learn things:
1. The easy way: taking no chances....
2. The hard way: Taking chances and seeing the bad side and then learning for life!!!!
Usually it is said: Look, observe, listen and learn.
If your friend does not learn from these, she needs to learn after seeing the bad side!
Unfortunate for you, Lady!
Just hope your friend sees daylight before its too dark.
AB
2006-10-10 04:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by arnab.boral 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let her tell him that she want to take their relation to a new level a more spiritual level where they have sex once every 2 month or not at all. and then let her see is reaction.
if his only interest is sex then it would clear up
2006-10-10 02:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by jesica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HATCH A CONSPIRACY...ALONG WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND..HOOK THIS GUY AND EXPOSE HIM...AS YOU SAY HE IS ONLY AFTER SEX...THEN I AM SURE YOU CAN ACT AS BAIT...BUT BE CAREFUL...LEST YOU SACRIFICE YOUR OWN VIRGINITY IN SAVING THAT OF YOUR FRIENDS ...ALL THE BEST'
2006-10-11 22:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to let your friend test him. if he truely loves her, he'll pass the test. let her tell him she's frigid and that she can't have sex with anyone no matter how much she loves the person. if he loves her, he'll appreciate her telling him. if not, he'll dump her
2006-10-10 02:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by abby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't. Some people have to learn things the hard way. I don't know why, but they do.
2006-10-10 02:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your friend doesn't heed your warning, that's their problem - let them get burned and you can let them learn their lesson.
2006-10-10 02:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her before she falls deeply in love with the cow
2006-10-10 02:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋