What's the best parenting skill to ensure your children treat you with respect?

Answer 1

Basically, just let them know that disrespect will not be tollerated. My children are 5 and 6 and have been taught to answer any adult with yes or no, maam or sir. When they ask for something, make them ask correctly before giving, and then tell them to say thank you. When my children back talk they are either scolded or, depending on what they have said, had their mouths washed out with soap or had some hot sauce put in their mouths. But remember, to teach children good behavior, you must do the same as what you are teaching them. Talk to them nicely, say please and thank you to them. Children learn what they see.

Answer 2

Treat yourself and them with respect. Also if your married it is vital that your partner treat you with respect also. I'm not saying make your kids your friends, I am just saying that we teach by example and this holds true for respect also. It is earned, even when you are the parent. My children have grown to respect me and my husband and sometimes they need reminders but with four boys it is vital that I retain their respect because 4 teenage boys could get out of control if the respect wasn't there. I respect their privacy until they give me a reason not to, I respect their belongings until they show me that they don't, by leaving clothes on the floor or throwing toys around the house. Mutual respect is the best respect, but whether they like it or not we are the parents and there are instances when "because I said so," is the only way to go.

Answer 3

Treat them with respect and don't allow them to treat you disrepectlfully. From an early age, when a child is not acting respectfully, you must correct them. Stoop down to their level and in a firm but low tone explain that they are not to talk like that or act like that. If the behavior persists, an age appropriate time out (a minute for each year of their age) is usually effective. For more help, talk to the pediatrician for advice or referral to a professional.

Answer 4

Teach them by being a good example. Show respect to them and to all others, and they will notice. Be sure to command respect, too. Don't tolerate bad, rude behavior.

Answer 5

You are fighting a losing battle because children are predisposed to rebel. The best chance you have is to apply some leverage for good behaviour, try cloths, food, outings, money etc.

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Answer 6

Respect them. Don't tell them "because I said so" - tell them why. Why they need someone with them to cross the street - because they are too short & cars can't see them as well. Tell them why not to talk to strangers, because even the most nicest man or woman can be a bad person on the inside. Tell them why not to take drugs, because you love them and want them to live. Tell them why you want them to be home on time - usually it's the law, but because they're so tired in the morning otherwise. Tell them why you want them to call home or give you a number where they're going to be, because you love them and it's your every heart beat that wants to make sure that they are ok.

I tell my son outright that he can't ride his bike alone, as he's only 4 and the cars don't see him very well. I told my oldest son that I have to ground him, because he gave me no other choice. And, I explained the reasonings of why he was grounded. Because he needs to have good grades, to have a good future. I talk to them about drugs, because I want them to live and even something that their friends might think it's cool or harmless to take something - I show them what it does to their body and show them that they can die from it. I talk to my children about being touched inappropriately, about why I never want them taken from me. In return, my kids come to me with problems, and I talk to them honestly about it.

I have 5 beautiful, intelligent children. Advanced curriculums are a norm in my household. Teachers have asked me what I do with my kids, that make them so wise beyond their years.

My only reply is - "i love my kids." And I do.

Answer 7

Respect them.

Answer 8

Let them know you run the show not them also tell them that they should respect their elders and parents.

Answer 9

hey,
value ur word, and they will value ur word.

i mean if u say dome thing, do it,
respect ur children,
keep consideration, ;listen to them well
cont contridict urself.
respect all family members.
respect ur partners,,

children look at everything u do, and follow the same,

Answer 10

Consistancy and confidence. kids dont need friends, and they dont need coddled. They need parents who can fearlessly and consistantly guide them. Thats what demands respect from a child.