have i made the right decision?

Question

ive had recent probs wi my ex chick,she spilt with me told me all this stuff bout sleeping wi other guys,so last night we met.awkward as it was we(Well i wanted)to ask her if she wanted to get back,she replied that she didnt want to hurt me,so i had to ask some Q's to clarify things,finds out she wasnt sleeping with these guys,i asked her why she lied about the stuff,she said she didnt know,i told her that was real nasty what she done but was willing to put it all behind me if she came back.she asked if we could be friends and see what happens down the line,i said that mean we cant see othere people,she said she might see sum1,i told her i couldnt handle other guys inside her,she said she understood,i said well its all or nothing ,do u want me ,she said yes and no,i said well thats it then i cant be friends wi her and just told her it was over and walked wi my head hi(not looking back when i left her at the bus stop)is this the right thing to do?what if shes willing to come back?

Answer 1

You made the right decision. You want a one-on-one relationship, but she wants you and other guys also. Move on and you will find someone to love. Good luck.

Answer 2

I think you sould understand that women doesn't do stuff without a very good reasion. I think she does not no what she wants at this moment so give her space and be friends with her. I think you made a wrong decision. They say if you let a dove loss and it comes back, it will always comes back to you. So give her time and don't let jealisy get in the way of your feelings.

Answer 3

Personally, I think you made the right decision. I think it would be difficult for an ex couple to be friends and see other people. It doesn't seem like she knows what she wants and it wouldn't be fair for one of you to be committed on working things out if the other person isn't as well. Good Luck.

Answer 4

If she was willing to come back she would have done anything you asked her to do last night. I dont think that she is ready for a serious relationship. I think that you are bnetter off moving on and finding someone else.

Answer 5

It was the right thing to do. You need to move on.
She is being upfront with you. She is telling you that she wants to date around. It sounds like you are having a hard time dealing with that. SHe lied cause she wants you to be mad at her and break it off totally. Your the one whos begging for her to be loyal to you and shes saying no she cant. yes she wants you to be there for her if she cant find anyone else. Sorry. dont be used like that.

Answer 6

I would say for your sake to stay away from her until she knows what she wants. I know you care for her but she will only hurt you again. When she is ready she will make a commitment and hopefully it will be with you but in the meantime don't sit around waiting. Go out, date, have a good time.

Answer 7

honesty u did well man
u told her its either all or nothing
and she couldnt give u a st8 answer so u left

that was brave but u did it
it will benefit u in the long run

she might come back to u but this girl seems to have issues

Answer 8

Keep on walking. She told you to your face she does not want anything and she will hurt you again. Unless you like being hurt by someone who does not have their mind made up you need to keep on walking and move on with your life!! She Need's to grow up!!

Answer 9

You made the right desicion, dont put yourself in a position to be hurt, its better this way,if she comes back, dont let her in. If you get back with her she will do it all over again.

Answer 10

I don't think it is wrong for you to feel that way. If she is not willing to only see you then you need to move on. Good Luck!