this teach at my school made a move on me. but he said if i tell anybody..that he would destroy any chance of me graduating this yr..and my bff.and who is also the guy i like...knows something is wrong..what do i do??
2006-10-10 02:22:09 · 32 answers · asked by *~Angel_Eyes~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously you should tell someone a parent or friend someone you can trust this is really serious if you do tell which you should he wont be able to do anything to you or your education.
what yah gonna do
kazmarianjones@yahoo.com
2006-10-10 02:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Karen J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what that teacher said to you. It's wrong what that teacher did. Report that teacher immediately. Go to the principal. Tell your parents. Tell your friends. Call the police and make a report. Sexual harrassment is against the law. Not only does this teacher need to go to jail, this teacher doesn't need to be in any school. Be strong and do what you have to do. So long as this teacher sees that your keeping quiet, this teacher will keep on and hopefully it won't go any further. People like that need to be in jail. Don't worry about graduation. The principal at your school is responsible for the students at your school. A problem like that needs to be reported. The police need to be called. This teacher is breaking the law. Don't be scared. Tell everyone. Doesn't matter if this teacher denies it. That will be the first thing the teacher does. But who's to say if there are other students the teacher sexually harrassed? If you make that move, if there are others, they made step up too. I wish you luck. I will pray for you.
2006-10-10 02:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you're under 18, what he did is a CRIME!!! He broke the law. Don't you know that is what all child molesters tell their victims? Find someone you trust and TELL! Even if you are 18, any unwanted sexual advances are illegal, not to mention immoral for a teacher to do this to a kid. The threat is what makes it worse. If you don't feel comfortable talking to anyone close to you about this, call your local crisis center. They will keep your confidence and help you through this. This is part of what they do.
2006-10-10 02:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to your school counselor and tell them what happened; the teacher is trying to intimidate you. Do not believe him when he tells you that he can ruin any chance of your graduating and do not let him get away with this. If you don't do anything about this, you are giving him all the power, all the control. As women, we cannot allow anyone to control our actions, especially when they are twisted!
2006-10-10 02:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by sharptooth3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not let him get away with it. Tell your counselor, another teacher, or the principal. Do let this go on. The next girl he goes to might not be as lucky. He can not stop you from graduating. That is just a threat to try and keep you from talking. Don't believe it. Tell, Tell, Tell!!!!
2006-10-10 02:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Predators always threaten like this to cover their own a**.
Tell your boyfriend 1st or at the same time with your parents. That way when he blows up your parents can help him & you with the problem.
If you can't go to your parents try his parents or the school princable.
Don't tell your BF without someone their, you don't want him to go & do something stupid like beat the sh!t out of the guy.
You do need to turn him in just because it didn't work on you does not mean he isn't doing it to someone else.
Like your best friend or sister ect...
2006-10-10 03:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You open your mouth and tell somebody and do not allow anybody to control you. You can always move schools, but you will not have too if he gets the punishment he should for wrong doing's with student's. Good Luck!!
2006-10-10 02:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Niecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, the police and the school principal. Tell your friend too. Get that teacher out of schools and into a prison! Don't listen to his crap, he has no way of stopping you graduate, he's just trying to scare you into being with him.
2006-10-10 02:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by shortcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your BF and ask him to go with you and support you while you tell everyone about what happened. You do not have to accept this type of behavior from any man at any time in your life! Do not let him get away with this, or he will continue toharrass other girls in your school in the future.
2006-10-10 02:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all..did you do anything with that teacher? If not tell you bf about it and make the right decision. About graduating..you will graduate but the teacher probally will lose his licence. I don`t think you should just stay quiet about it. I woudnt`
2006-10-10 02:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by Raluca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋