Hi there, my ex boyfriend sent me this message which was meant for another girl " hey so do you still like me, why did you tell tom (his mate and her cousin) what i said to you that was between you and me" when i asked him about it, he eventually said that this girl faniced him, but that it was a harmless message. I got it at 11pm in the night when he said he was very very drunk. Was I right to dump him. He still texts me a long time later and says the only reason we ever broke up was because he wasnt ready for committment. Hes texting me alot more recently, I dont know what to say to him as im all confused. Think I still have feelings for him but how am I ever going to move on if hes still in touch, should I ask him out straight what he wants from me? Meet him and talk or what. Please help!! Im dating another guy at the moment for the past six months and hes so kind and good to me but it just doesnt seem to have that spark, i dont want to string him along so need to make up my mind
2006-10-10 02:21:08 · 6 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you were right to dump him. If he doesn't put you first in his life, don't put him first in yours. I know it hurts, but you will get over it. Hang in there and the perfect man will find you. You don't have to go looking for him.
2006-10-10 02:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who text message are pus sies. I never text message a girl, If I have something I want to say i call them up and say it, go find yourself a guy who doesn't have to hide behind text messages to talk to you.
2006-10-10 02:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the good guy...the other guy was messing around - or was planning to. The grass is not greener on the other side.
2006-10-10 02:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by applebetty34 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look tell him you dont want him to be in contact with you anymore, and ask him nicely to leave you alone, if this dosnt work, change your number.
2006-10-10 02:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him
he shouldnt be texting other girls if hes got u
2006-10-10 02:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by sexy aoife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Dump away........
2006-10-10 02:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Krazykraut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋