my mum never lets me stay out late i use to get beeten up but not any more i have a mobile but she still wont let me how can i make her say yes you can go out till 9:00pm i need to go out then to play with my friends because thay can come out in the day coz thay have homework and then thay need ther supper thay can only get out then but i am never allowed please some won help me
2006-10-10 02:06:40 · 5 answers · asked by david 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are way too young to even be worrying about curfews. Your mom has her reasons why she will not let you stay out that late. Have you thought about the neighborhood you're living in or the fact that it is a dangerous world out there? Keep in mind that you are her child and she's doing whatever she can to protect you and not have you in harm's way because you are her responsibility until you become an adult. No matter what you say or do, your mom will not change your curfew. It's all up to her. In the meantime, be happy with your curfew and stick to it.
2006-10-10 03:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out in groups rather than by yourself - if she sees a group of 3 or 4 other people coming to pick you up, she will not worry so much and you will all be safer anyway. Also, have your friends over to your house sometimes so that your mother can get to know them and see that they are good people. Be mature in trying to work it out with her so that she understands you are trying to come up with a plan that works for her and you. Maybe even ask her what would make her feel better about you going out in the evenings and try to work it in.
2006-10-10 09:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by KB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take mum a while to let go again. You have to work to prove to mum that you are going to be OK. to do this try being a little more mature, don't whine about stuff and do responcible things.
2006-10-10 09:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by konala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should listen to your mother, it might not seem like it but she has your best interests at heart. Besides it does not sound like your old enough to be out past that time. Don't be in a hurry to grow up...
2006-10-10 09:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not say how old are your first, and second you did not mention anything about your neighborhood, etc. for that reason I can not give my opinion
2006-10-10 09:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by pelancha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋