I am trying to get my new girl to relax and check it out. I dont know if she is into it.
2006-10-10 01:51:38 · 17 answers · asked by STEVE H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Huge turn on ... we take a trip to the Hustler Store once a month and do some shopping ... he likes to find the ones I hide for myself ... and watch those with me since they turn me on more ... I would have porn on all night long if I could but I have a 4 yr old daughter that says different ... it use to bother me when my ex-husband watched porn, but only because he wouldn't let me watch or play with him ... he thought masturbating was " his time " and pornos were for him to watch alone ... well I found a guy who loves to masturbate with me ... without me ... watch me ... help me ... and it's great ... !
The one thing that will make or break her and porno ... is how comfortable you make her feel and how honest you are towards her ... if you make it all about her then she might be willing to open up a little more ... tell her when you watch pornos together all you think about is her and what you want to do to her ... show her you're not interested in the women .. you're just interested in the act .. take her shopping for porn .. let her pick one out herself .. ( maybe a few toys too - the vibrating c*ck rings are f*cking awesome .. lol .. just not that cheap Trojan one that's out ) and go from there ... ask her if she can be open-minded a few times and try it out .. if she's not willing to try it out .. I'd think twice about my future with her .. !
2006-10-10 07:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
2
2016-07-25 07:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not? I mean the acting is more comical than a turn on, but who exactly is watching it for that? heh heh heh.
I suggest you bring your girl over one night and just have the tape ready. When you guys are settled down on the couch just get up and pop it in and see if she minds it. If she's not for it then dont do it.
Everyone is different and has different standards of moral. And thats okay because everyone is entitled to their own thoughts and opinions. I would just say it's mentally and physically stimulating, in some way educational (techniques and ideas forming) and pleasurable for the both of you! But um, why would you date anyone who is not open minded to sexual journies?
Oh and for the "I want him to be turned on by you" thing. OF COURSE he is turned on. Your obviously doing something right in the bedroom for him to be sticking to you in that aspect besides all other components in a relationship. My goodness, it's just the idea of watching it and wanting to explore each other's bodies. It's not like he's gonna jump in the friggin tube and have sex with the porn stars in front of your face. I just don't see the harm in watching it. There should be nothing wrong with at least watching one. or two...lol. I, personally got my babez one he loves and an autographed poster of a couple famous porn stars like Jenna Jameson.
Good Luck! Have a nice day!
2006-10-10 01:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Cloe 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I want him to be turned on BY me.
If he needs that to get turned on I'd rather not have sex at all and go to bed.
If you word it right, there might be a possibility however, such as you'd like to watch a video with her for both of you to learn new techniques.
Most porns tend to go girl on girl or anal which however, I find offensive and would not prefer to ever watch again. DOES NOT TURN ME ON ONE SINGLE BIT.
2006-10-10 02:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah totally, but it really depends on the girl.some girls really dont go for it. maybe try some mild porn or a normal film that u know has some really good sex scenes in it like original sin or monsters ball and see how she reacts to it. but if she doesnt like it dont push her or you could lose her.
2006-10-10 02:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
?Hummmmm, why not let her pick which one? Absolutely a huge turn on. Hubby lets me choose and that is a big turn on to him. You might want to start to include her looking through adult entertainment catalogs. Might get more than movies? Maybe she might want some toys first? Then go from there.
2006-10-10 02:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course it turns me on when i'm watching porn with my bf, it adds spice in a way, it even better when we're watching and doing things at the same time, lol
2006-10-10 01:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it does. If only he would let me watch it more with him and not get bent out of shape about it.
2006-10-10 01:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by gin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha. kind of, just as long as its not all girls. i don't want my man watching that just to get off when he has the real thing at his side. ya know?
2006-10-10 01:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by laciarlene89 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I doubt she is buddy.. but I know I enjoy girl girl porn.. it is wonderful.
2006-10-10 01:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋