i'm a girl and me and my g/f have been going out for almost 10 months. we have a long distance relationship but we still love each other. she keeps cheating on me with this girl and ends up breaking up with me, but then taking me back again. i really love her even though she's hurt me, and i wanna know how i can make her stop cheatin on me. i need ideas on that and how to be a better g/f, b/c i'm obviously not a good one if she keeps leavin me for someone else. thanks for any advice.
2006-10-10 01:27:08 · 8 answers · asked by soccergrl1489 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, i'm a girl who loves another girl. n no, i'm not a les, i'm bi.
2006-10-10 01:35:09 · update #1
You can't stop her - so you might keep her around for whatever reason, just remember that she isn't the one for anything long-term.
If you meet someone better, trade up and forget her.
2006-10-10 01:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships don't work if one person is trying harder than the other to keep it together.
It's obvious that she doesn't feel the same for you as you do for her. Is she really worth the pain and heart ache. Someone is out there who will treat and respect you better.
2006-10-10 08:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by mariajd3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a les? Love is a feeling both parties must have... if either one does not like the other one, then there wont be any more love. maybe it's better if u left her,since she already lost her feelings for you....rather then having a one-sided love affair...which just hurts you more and more over time...
good luck in finding your other half xD!!!!
2006-10-10 08:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by lonerly80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are the only one giving in this relationship, as we all know relationships are a two way street. SO don't sell yourself short for putting up with this, stand up for yourself and move on. Obviously this is how she is as a person, it's not healthy.
So sorry and good luck.
2006-10-10 08:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by razzyrascal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to realize no matter how much you love her she does not really love you. If she did she would not cheat on you and use you when her new lover is gone. Move on honey you will find a better person and you deserve that
2006-10-10 08:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to bizarre relationships like yours dear ,ummm you have to fight with that same person because it is hard to get another of your category i understand that for sure. My best advice is go frank with her, found out why she is doint it and propose her that you want to experience with her. or make her feel bad by saying i am going to date others if that continues.
2006-10-10 08:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by hutdast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see signs of an unsound relationship...I really dont see any ways of making her love you...its something that both ends must feel...if its not there...giving up is the only best answer...and please dont stick around her if she doesnt want you to.
2006-10-10 08:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lard Cherrybakins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounding sort of gay you sure u rephrase that question properly. R u a girl who likes another girl?????/
2006-10-10 08:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋