he is really weird guy i lOVE him 2 bits & apparnetly he does the same 4 me .. YAY .. but 4 a while he hasnt been talking 2 me at school but he talks 2 me on msn i ask him wat is rong & he says it is his frend saying stuff cuz hes frend is tellin people that he fingerd me & HE WOULDNT CUZ I HAD 2 MANY PUBS >>(He didnt even try 2 do that 2 me ) ..& he sed he isnt talking 2 me cuz of that & he sed he will talk 2 me 2morrow.. but i dont really no if i should behive him he says he loves me & everything & he sed that he hasnt been talkin cuz he has been talk 2 much wif his mates & he always says he is sorry .. WHAT IS GOIN ON
2006-10-10 01:00:31 · 19 answers · asked by Sexcaii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's immature. Tell him to grow up, or else you'll drop him.
Good luck.
2006-10-10 01:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all to Jim!!! What in the world are you telling this girl? You need to grow up and realize this girl is way to young for any of this to be happening!!
Listen sweetheart, You sound so young and even if you are in high school it's still too young. You need to have more respect for yourself by getting rid of this boy. He is no good! I can't believe that he or his friends would even say such a thing. I would drop him so fast he wouldn't know what hit him. You deserve better than that.
If he doesn't talk to you that would be the only sign I needed to leave, don't be afraid to do what is right you will thank yourself later. Another thing he should say he is sorry for just the words that came out of his mouth.
You girls need to get a backbone these days and stand up for yourself at all cost! He is a looser and will amount to nothing trust me.
I wouldn't even give him the time of day, another words I wouldn't talk to him at all. I would just keep looking forward and keep moving on! I promise you there is someone out there better for you and if you just slow down and take your time he will find you or you will find him. Don't try to grow up to fast, take your time, and have respect for yourself. I know this is not what you wanted to hear but you need to hear it, from someone that doesn't even know you or him to give you an honest answer. I am sorry and I wish you luck, but let him go it will only get worse!
Stay true to yourself!
Always Amy
2006-10-10 08:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talking about airing out dirty laundry....
First of all, I doubt very seriously that your mother would enjoy reading this. You are obviously young, and boys at that age are worried that they will be picked on by their friends if they talk to girls who aren't "popular" or "hot". In time, he will mature, and he will not care what they think. It will take years, not months or days, but that's a good thing, because you seem to need all the time that you can get.
2006-10-10 08:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by ~Angel~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those guys are monsters & you are getting trapped in a vicious circle which could inevitably mess up your reputation as a decent person. Dont be naiive to beleive what he is saying. If he had any genuine feelings for you, he would defend you & not them. I know you are thinking with your heart but for your own well-being, please let go of this destructive relationship.
2006-10-10 08:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is true that people r saying that about ya then u would have heard it already somehow the gossip would have gotten to u, so mostlikely he just made up a reason so that he wouldnt seem like the bad guy
2006-10-10 08:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by emaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all thats just hym trying to tell you he doesnt wanna be with u if he keeps blowing u off tell hym u through and give hym the same reason he gave u my friends or talkin
2006-10-10 08:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by lilmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you then the pubes would not stop him. If you believe that it is stopping him then shave your box so he can take a picture and stop getting laughed at. Give him a good shot to take to the boys and then they will show him some respect
2006-10-10 08:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you really love this guy let him go. it's time to move on & find someone that will love you for you & not what everyone else thinks.
good luck keep looking
2006-10-10 08:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by silverwolf1@rogers.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to grow up and stop listings to his friends i went though the same the same thing and it didn't work out
2006-10-10 08:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your grammar and spelling needs some correction. Then we will talk.
2006-10-10 08:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋