2006-10-10 00:50:54 · 21 answers · asked by adrian c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anything is possible but i believe after that long the spark can be relit
2006-10-10 00:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by R C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it happens so gradual that you don't even notice until one day it hits you and you think what the hell did you first see in them and what happens from here on.If you do find yourself in a situation like this,don't stay just because you have 10 years or more together its better to get out now and have a life rather than looking back on this one and regretting it all.You have only one life to live and it should be a happy one.I have had 2 long term relationships each lasting 9 yrs but when things wasn't right I moved on.
2006-10-10 08:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a bit more complex than that.Ten years is a long time in today's society and I think it is a milestone,I think you look back and reflect on things which you have obviously done.If you are not happy don't give up so easily try and make things right you have something because you've been married so long.I have been married for 11 yrs and I think most people have gone through the same feelings.Good luck.
2006-10-10 08:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i would take a friend of mines point of view - then yes it can happen the you dont feel anything for a person no more from 1 to another minute but i personally think its not possible. When you love someone then you dont consider the thought of oh i dont love him or her nomore!
2006-10-10 08:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by stephangie2001de 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every break up of relationship, marriage or not, always have a reason. for 10 years of marriage, it's hard to tell that you just fall out of love "just like that". maybe throughout the marriage, things has started or been deteriorating for awhile.. you just didn't noticed it. love needs hard work. not just by one, but it should be both of you.
2006-10-10 08:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It rarely happens "Just Like That". Chances are you missed the signals that were being given for some time.
2006-10-10 07:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Letsee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,but not "just like that" it takes time to fall out of love with someone just like it takes time to fall in love
2006-10-10 09:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may seem like they feel out of love "just like that", but actually started a few years ago and neither one of you really knew it, or just brushed it off.
2006-10-10 07:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my x husband fell out of love with me after 30 years of marriage, were now divorced and he has re married, idiot.
2006-10-10 07:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, no probs!!!
I woke up one day and thought, I don't want to be here any more, lifes too short, if you are not happy get out, just ask Paul Hunter!!
2006-10-10 08:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by Daveo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋