i do get insecure whenever my boyfriend looks at other women.. i do hate the feeling because i feel like i am not enough..
2006-10-09 23:41:24 · 24 answers · asked by Nikkilovejeffrey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get another boyfriend.
2006-10-09 23:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Friend 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I wouldnt feel insecure, all guys look at other women. Its not because we`re sleazy, we just think they are beautiful! And remember this - if a girl goes out showing a lot of cleavage, or in a real short skirt, guys are gonna look. We simply cant help it. Imagine a guy wearing a skin tight outfit that showed every curve - would you look?
And no, we dont always fantasise! Just sometimes.......
2006-10-09 23:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Richo Fev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexy is the biggest marketing tool used today by advertisers, it sells cars, movies, TV shows, food, clothes etc. From the sublime to the out right up front sexy (near naked bodies) it is everywhere we look so it is ingrained in our sub-conscious. Now as to your boyfriend ie "checking out other girls" you are correct to be concerned, it is one thing to have something on your mind and another to express it openly. This may be a blessing in disguise. Re-think your relationship because your boy-friend has a wandering eye and may be looking to change up and just as a last thought that kind of behavior is just plain rude to your lady.
2006-10-09 23:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by Whynotguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If guys fantasize about the woman they look at I wouldn't know but every guy look at a beautiful woman. Don't ever feel that you are not beautifull enough, that's just guys. Like they say, boys will be boys.
2006-10-09 23:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual creatures they need to see something sexy to get turned on, women on the other hand like touch and what they hear.
Dont worry about it all men do this it does not mean he dosnt love you, he seperates whats fantasy from reality, why not join in and live his fantasies with him instaed of being a wallflower and being so insecure.
2006-10-09 23:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one is "enough", i.e. no one is "perfect". So, just relax. Guys have an inbuilt GPS system to hone in on the opposite sex, it may be nature's way of ensuring procreation. But the brain is there to act as a control system. It's hard for the guy, to decide between brain and sex appeal. It takes a life-time to figure this one out.
2006-10-09 23:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by ideaquest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chill up, honey!
guys r always like this. there r just a few guys who don't look at other women except their gf-s.
i'm looking 4 that kind of guy too so i wish u luck.
my advise 4 u is to move on and start looking 4 the guy of ur dreams. i know it sounds awful but it's the truth and we need to believe in it.
take care
ali shkodrova
2006-10-09 23:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, if you only KNEW the fantasies! You'd run screaming for the hills. I'm starting to fantasize a little about bubbigirl, though.
2006-10-09 23:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always wanted to know that myself, and the other night i confronted my hubby they just look just like we look at sexy guys. I am also very insecure because i don't like what i see in the mirror, but i have learned to be proud that my hubby look at sexy chicks coz that means i am better looking than them coz he is with me and not with them.
so let him look and start feeling better about yourself, he loves you for who you are and what you look. Don't be so insecure that might scare him off!
2006-10-09 23:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by sweet - angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can also ask him that question and if you feel like is lying to you, therefore i am sorry to say there is no love around you two it's just booty calls. In other hands, most of us men like sexy girls because they are not many of them and nice curve body is the fantazy of everyone even you!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 00:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by hutdast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What country are you from? If you are from here you should be not just worried about your looks but your smarts. where did you learn to write a sentence. or are you in the third grade? Guys like to look at hot chicks no big deal don't be insecure about that. unless he does something with her.
2006-10-09 23:46:20 · answer #11 · answered by robtiger2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋