I'm a 14 year old male, and I love how I am now. I'm not too masculine, but I'm feminine looking. I'm confused with what gender I like. Sometimes I like men, sometimes girls (but not in a sexual way at all), and sometimes neither. I want to stay a boy or become a girl, I can't become a man. I really can't. Please help, can I stop puberty by inducing some hormone? My voice has already deepened a bit, but my head voice can still go very high. I can't let it deepen any more. I need to stop this now. Don't just say I'm going through a phase. Also, I can't tell my family, I'd be absolutely mortified. I'd probably even kill myself. I just can't. Please help!
2006-10-09 22:18:03 · 5 answers · asked by Stephen 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
its all part of growing. be who you are
be true to yourself.. let life take its course .in time you may feel diffrent about this
2006-10-09 22:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by rx8 slotcar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to a therapist that specializes in gender/sexual orientation issues. If you're genetically male, then start on male hormone suppressors to delay puberty until yoou've made up you mind. Also, because of your age you'll have to go through your parents to acomplish any of this. I wish you the best.
2006-10-12 15:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most boys do NOT have this problem, you are right!!!
Do you feel you should be a girl? I know it will be hard, but I BEG you to talk to your family, go to your mother first and tell her that your are gender confused and need help.
PLEASE do this.. There is also a law in the US that you may see a dr without your parents knowing, so maybe you can contact a therapist who can help you..
It has been proven that some are born as one sex, but was meant to be another, it is proven through genetic testing..
You CAN get through this. Please turn to someone you feel you can trust (adult). I know if my son came to me with this i would do all I could to help him find who he really is!
Who are you closest to in your family? With us my son will and can come to me with anything, he is almost 18 now
Email me if you want some support and a friend to talk to.
2006-10-10 06:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most boys have this problem in this age, after few months you should change your mind, I'm sure
2006-10-10 05:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do what you like its your life.
2006-10-10 05:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋