I have been seeing this guy for a while now.I do trust him but at the same time he's not upfront about how much time he spends on the net.He still has his profile on some dating sites and checks them at least once a week.I've put fake profiles on these sites to catch him out but he hasnt fallen for it yet?And yes I have asked him and he says not to worry that its no big deal.Any ideas on how to find out if he's genuine or not or to see how I could catch him out lol
2006-10-09 21:28:56 · 9 answers · asked by silentrose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know, this whole deal sounds really "junior high"
playing "gotcha" doesn't make for healthy relationships.
2006-10-09 21:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got any friends that can go fishing on the net with you?
Sounds like you don't have a chance if he's checking dating sites & your're trying to catch him hooking up with somebody. I think one of you will eventually win, but not sure if it's going to be a good end result.
2006-10-10 04:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by skymastergolfpro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya well...
apparantly, the guy is not getting "satisfied"... and he doenst want to hurt you or harm the "sacred" relationship bond between the two of you, so he just goes online onto p.o.r..n sites....
and just a tip from a guy (they'll kill me for this) ... no matter how honest a guy may seem, there will always be some laying around,,,, and another thing... give the guy some space.... how would you feeel if he did the same to you? - TOTALLY PISSED!
anyways.... this is just a tip from a fella!
2006-10-10 04:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by COBRA SILK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - you don't trust him. I cannot condone this kind of game in a relationship as it is more than unhealthy - but here is a solution but beware - nothing good can come of this:
Buy a keylogger (I have seen them for under $20.00 on ebay), they record every keystroke he presses, then you have
1) a record of everything he types while on line and
2) his e-mail password - and on-line dating passwords!!
2006-10-10 04:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by cpt braino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you have 2 go through ALL this his not worth your time (send your friend after him & see what happens) just make it a friend he does NOT know is a friend of yours & be sure you TRUST her or they might BOTH screw you GL
2006-10-10 04:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still looking around. He's hasn't found anything else and likes you, but he is keeping his eyes open. It could make him more ready to commit to you also, so it's not all bad.
2006-10-10 04:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
vice squad.. i wouldn't encourage his infidelity.
most of my ideas would be expensive.. but unless you'd like him to be outside the relationship.. i wouldn't encourage it, cause you might get what you are looking for.
2006-10-10 04:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by intracircumcordei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit being a b i t c h he's having sex with other people just deal with it and grow up
2006-10-10 04:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by cowboysfan4lyfe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he or she is not with you. he or she is or has gone somewhere.
2006-10-10 04:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by used1goods 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋