we have a son, he be nearly a year now, i got preg on the pill do you think he is off s.e.x cos of that? once of month maybe if i am lucky... it driving me mad i am fed up being rejected. any serious advice would be great??? thanks
2006-10-09 21:16:20 · 16 answers · asked by comeo!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have sex about twice a month and he does want me to get pregnant! I don't know how he expects it to happen. So I think this is not your problem (pregnancy, I mean). I think it has to do with every day life, triviality, baby wipes, etc. There is no romance any more. Try one day to create an atmosphere, leave the baby at your mum, cook a nicely served dinner, get a nice bottle of wine, light candles, fill the bath tub, switch the TV OFF, have a relaxing evening like that, and if it doesn't worek, then there is a problem. Otherwise, it is pretty much normal.
2006-10-09 21:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
men like certain things like women that stand by their man, seeing a woman cook, a woman that has entreprenuer ideas and works toward it r some. men want 2 b with women like that 4 life, the other women no matter how strong the attraction is still is just 4 the moment. look at men this way --- when it comes 2 sex men r very careless --- so the mother n u has 2 protect the little girl n u. i sincerely hope things improve 4 u with him but if they dont then know u done what u could and walk away.
2006-10-10 04:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first ask him why he is rejecting you. Maybe he's tired with a 1 year old, maybe he's having personal problems. Unless he can justify his behavior, I would do some private investigating to find out if he is having an affair. After that, well, I don't need to tell you what to do.
2006-10-10 04:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im having the same problem. having a child is alot of work on a marriage trust me. He maybe jsut very stressed from his day at work, and having to deal with child when getting home could just put a man off. Or maybe he has alot on his mind. You should put little one in to bed early and give your night to him, make a nice dinner candles and just chat, normally it leads to the problem. He maybe having problems with himself, every man goes through this stage in life. just because you both are not having sex doesnt mean he is cheating on you. Think positive.
2006-10-10 04:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that happens in many relationships after a while. I know it has for just about everybody i know. Maybe try spicing it up a little bit, change your routine, do something romantic, surprise him with something different out of the ordinary.
Good Luck!
2006-10-10 04:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by skymastergolfpro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he could be getting some from another girl but if he is devoted to you i dont think so. try doing sexy things for him, like wearing sexy clothes(if you dont already) get irrisistable lingerie and get the kid to stay over by a nanny for the night and treat him, show him what he's missing and if that doesnt work maybe its because he is stressed at work or something. another option is that you may look like you dont want to have sex (showing no interest)
2006-10-10 04:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this may mean that he is afraid of having another baby or he is cheating on you because men are at there sexual peek between 19 & 23. ask him if he finds you still attractive because once there is a having a child you may gain alittle weight
2006-10-10 04:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him about it ask him whats up and if he doesn't answer you the next time he feels like it reject him!
2006-10-10 04:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are funny that way. I wish I could help you with that puzzle, but I've been confused about that myself for YEARS!
2006-10-10 04:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with jeri.......he might be addicted to jerking off himself........in which case u need to spice things up a little
2006-10-10 04:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by hugh_cheung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋