i think i'm inlove with my bestfriend but he already has a girlfriend. the worst part is, the girl is one of my closest friend too. i'm happy that they're happy but i can't stand spending time with them now because it hurts so much. they don't know about my feelings and i have no plans to tell them. how do i handle this?
2006-10-09 21:08:50 · 5 answers · asked by gorgeous_angel 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Credit
You are a saint.I honestly mean it.I think you should not spoil their happiness and yours just walk away from them in a manner they dont notice.Look for another relationship God loves sacrifices.When He will see you sacrifice your happiness for the sake of other peoples happiness maybe He will give you much more than you can ever dream of having.He is the most merciful of those who are merciful.
2006-10-09 21:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in situation where no one can envy you. Control your feelings, move on. Everything will be better, time can handle it. Stick with your friends and be happy for them and don't ruin their happyness. You are a good person, you deserve all the best
2006-10-10 04:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sameh C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can handle this situation by moving on and find your own man...and learn to be a REAL best friend. How hurt do u think she will be if she finds out how you betrayed her??
2006-10-10 04:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by kamsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't handle it. do u remember the jingle in one of the bacardi rum commercial that says "we want to wanna be taking things the way they come,,,". u know it helps to get away of things that hurt.
2006-10-10 04:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Human Clay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should come clean, make sure he knows how you feel, if that screws everything up, then so be it. friends come and go, family is forever.
or just leave, "time and distance resolves everything."
2006-10-10 04:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by chnnewjack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋