do they just wanna get laid with no hassles, with no commitment and what can i do to push him in the right direction. i'm already withholding sex until I feel its a proper relationship. we chat,we go to movies but he doesnt want to make it official.
2006-10-09 21:00:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cant say I blame him if you use sex as control. Hmmm always thought sex was something special between to people not a leash or a definition of a relationship.. Sound like you have given him confusing signals an hes waiting for you to define your relationship.. It would sound how ever that hes not all that interested.. Prolly sees you more as a friend than a lover.. Hope it works out for you..
2006-10-09 21:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by D L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a Man says they dont want to define a realtionship... they really really really mean that they want no hassles (of all sort)...
90% of men want to " get laid with no hassles, with no commitment" ... Sex comes naturally to men... We're not ashamed of accepting that ... Hence some of us do keep hunting for chances anywhere and everywhere ... someone has rigthly said "God has not given enough blood supply to men, to run both the penis and the brain at the same time"... Its only upon the women to have a control over a relationship (What to do ... God created her like that).
I would rather suggest you to put your guy on test if hes really interested in you than your body... If not then you can always move on...
Do not allow anyone to devour on you if thats not a committed relationship.
2006-10-09 21:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Frank_walker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are absolutely right about that my friend.I think you are going in the right direction. Don't have sex with someone before you know him really well.
As far as guys are concerned,I am a 20 year old guy, take it from me that most of the guys just wanna get laid but there are a FEW good ones too. So try to find such guys who really care for you and want to have a long term relationship with you.Best of luck, because you gonna need it.
2006-10-09 21:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by enigma 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because he doesn't want one. When it is declared, it will show that he is officially off limits. With that, he can't look at another girl without his conscience saying 'hey, you're in a relationship now remember!' Not defining a relationship leaves room for a loophole and freedom to roam. It's great that you're keeping true to your virtues but it seems like you're better than this one. He's obviously not ready yet.
2006-10-09 21:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by thedaybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP! u r trying 2 change someone 2 get want u want pimp. if he doesnt want 2 b committed then walk away or run 4 the hills. not giving sex 2 someone means nothing now-a-days genius so find a guy that has the same foundation as yours then start building.
2006-10-09 21:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they just want to enjoy ur body n company momentarily.
they dun think you're worthy enough of their full commitment
they think you can be easy
they believe they can do better
they are not sincerely interested in getting to know you as a person, for a lifetime relationship
IF they did, they would not specifically say they don't want a r/s with you...
2006-10-09 21:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to leave it open to see where the realtionship goes. If they feel anything for you great, then they will commit. If they don't feel anything for you, then you can't blame them for a broken heart, because they will say hey I never said we were dating. Good way for them to cheat.
2006-10-09 21:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's leaving the door open for other opportunities, and he isn't going to feel as bad when one comes along if he hasn't truly committed to you.
2006-10-09 21:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by skymastergolfpro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It skill which you're occupied. no one else can occupy your area see you later as you're sharing that with him. this is what he meant by making use of correcting your single status. thank you and robust success.
2016-10-19 03:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by carrera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetely dont have sex with him. yes they want no hassles..men like the feeling of being free and being with whoever they want to be with. Its very childish. try dating someone who can respect your morals and be with you.
2006-10-09 21:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋