There's this man whom i just hear about but havent seen. I feel that i love him. He's a friend to my girl friend whom i stay with. He seems he has guts to see me and so I am. I have this strong feeling that he'll find me attractive and something will happen between us cos he asks much about me. How can we know each other and make him fall in love with me? My friend works at a certain club and he goes there oftenly after work but gosh at that time I find myself at work and he doesn't visit us coz during the weekends he's always busy. What can I do?
2006-10-09 20:44:57 · 22 answers · asked by pinkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um... ok...
a little weird, you haven't even met the guy and you are plotting to get him to fall in love with you...
Start by meeting him. From there, it's all about the chemistry. You can't make someone fall in love if your not compatible. But you'll know alot more about your compatibility once you meet him.
2006-10-09 20:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really want to make a guy fall in love with you when you only 'feel' that you love him? Is that really fair to the guy when you're not 100% sure that you're in love with him? I think you should first step away from the idea of making a man love you or you'll be spending too much time making tactics than actually getting to know who this person really is. Then, you can get a group together to go out to your friend's club or somewhere that people can get together and talk (I like hookah!). From there you can get to talk to him and still be among friends if you run out of things to say. You can also start getting acquainted with the idea of whether you really love him or not. If things go well, you can either ask him out for a one on one date sometime in the future or wait to see if he'll make the move. (Most guys like to work for their mate)
2006-10-09 20:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by thedaybear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 04:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make ANYONE “fall in love” with you.... If its meant to be it will happen, there has to be a natural connection.. Sure you could make a big facade to make someone fall in love with you. But as time goes on it will fade away an nothing will have been gained.. Just be yourself and if it was meant to be it will an if not there are plenty of other fish in the sea.... :)
2006-10-09 20:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by D L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can!!
But for that you'll have to become the woman of his dreams and its quite painful and sometimes impossible to extract all information about his desires and transform yourself into one like that.!! Also theres a risk you might loose yourself completely and afterwards he might not be interested in you. Worst of both worlds!!!
If possible try contacting witches from the medieval times... maybe they can help you transform in short term.
As for long term,
Try having a decent and pleasant relationship with him ... show him your feelings gradually over time .. and if his response is positive according to you then you may go ahead ...
Learn more about him ... and try adjusting to his good desires and make yourself better (like academics, attributes etc).... this way even if in case you fail in this relationship, you wont regret coz you gained something in your personality and youre better choice for someone else..
And besides , he'll also like the changes in you and would love to spend more time with you..
Be serious about this relationship only when you see him making good changes in himself according to you ... Love is always a Give and Take relationship ... Seriously!!
By all means, be very careful and firm on "physically-going-too-far" in a relationship. I assume you live away from your parents. Hence, be responsible towards their dreams too.. And if you will, then in future they'll also understand your feelings for this guy... and everything will be merrier!!
All the best!!
2006-10-09 21:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by Frank_walker 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you can't make anybody fall in love with you especially if you have never even talk or seen that person. Arreange a meeting through your friend first and then go from there.
2006-10-09 20:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by rucrazy? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Going to your friend's club,and see him.You cant love him without meeting him.
make him a great impression about you.Dressing your best beautifull clothers when you meet him,asking much about him so that you can understand him um...about what he intersting in,or some else.
Dont talk about your bad habit.
Give him your charming smiles.
and........
you can ask your roommate something about him.
And the important thing is : you are always yourself!
Good luck!
2006-10-09 21:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by want_to_know 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go and talk to him! sit together and talk. u're gonna know what to do next. Maybe u wont find him interesting anymore, maybe u will.. so then u can persue what u really want. But to say i want him to love you, well, that a little bit soon now..
2006-10-09 20:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Blend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make some one fall in love with you...If he was really interested he would make time to see you...I would look for someone else...
2006-10-09 20:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
finding ur self in love is 1 thing
u r in love is 2nd thing
lovin a person whom u have not seen ......strange
it is just an attraction....i may say cauz ur frnd told u only his +ve things
better u stop thinkin cauz dis wil trouble ur mind.
actually wen u come 2 no dat person face 2 face his reality will shock u
be coool ......meet him .....n den decide
do tell me wat hppned
2006-10-09 21:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by royton r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋