I really like this guy I know through playing music. I am absolutely nutso about him--he is THE ONE as far as I am concerned. The first time we played music together, I asked him out, and he hesitated and said "yes," finally. We had a great time; nothing happened, but he spoke in very tender and affection terms about me. Problem is, later I found out far too late from a source I told to do research he has a girlfriend; I guess I should have asked first, right? But I'm not getting over him, and he has lately started flirting and sending subtle signals and I want to go out with this guy!!!!! I am a very attractive, smart, talanted woman; many guys seem to like me, but I feel oddly about putting myself forwards when he has a girlfriend, and he is also hesitant about moving forwards because of that fact. It is hard to ask him to do things, because he is so busy, but sometimes, when I get up the nerve, he says yes. Little by little, it is progressing, but I want to BE with him. What to do?
2006-10-09 20:38:32 · 4 answers · asked by Leandra P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he likes you, he'll brake up with his gf and come to you..dont be the one to brake them up...just be patient, if its meant to be, it will be, you cant do anything by force...
2006-10-09 20:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill his girlfriend! just kidding. Let him know you are holding your breath for him. oh and "it don't mean a thing if they don't got rings"
he may not realy like his girlfriend and is waiting for you to ask him again.
2006-10-10 03:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by Stephen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait it out. if he cheats he's not worth it. 9 times out of 10 you lose someone the same way you got them. if he's a good guy he will be worth the wait.
2006-10-10 03:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by m m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be it is bad advice, but try to speak to his girlfriend, and tell her, that YOU MUST BE WITH HIM.
May be she will upset and things will go easy...
2006-10-10 03:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Georgio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋