what would you do if your bf/gf ditched you?
here's the problem:
My bf asked me to go to knott's with his co workers and he told me that he would pick me up from work after im done with it. And then he sent me a message and he was saying that he will not go afer all because he was with his cousins.(There was a party) And then the next day, he told me that "i dont wanna lie to you, and yes i went to knotts with my cousin and my co workers". And I dont know how to react. I was mad at him until now. But should i break up with him?
2006-10-09 20:36:50 · 5 answers · asked by len l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked him how come he didnt tell me the fact that he was going. And he said, "cause i didnt expect that i will go after all. And it was late like at 11pm and i didnt have fun".
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now he's texting me and telling me i love u and stuff but he didnt even say sorry.
2006-10-09 20:43:45 · update #1
Yes. You should. He lied to you. End of story. If he's not trustworthy... do you really think he's worth your time, love, or heart?
But, it might be a good idea to talk to him eventually and ask "why he felt it was necessary to lie". This way, maybe you can take a look at yourself and see why he would feel so "afraid" to be honest.
But, definitely... dump him. There are plenty of other guys out there that are actually willing and CAPABLE of being honest.
2006-10-09 20:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by ~smiling wanderer~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, how come?
you must be wondering how on earth would he NOT want to hang out tog with you.... if he really loves you.. ouch, but it seems he didn't think u were worth the time n effort then...
it was late?? come on. You'd jump up at 3.30a.m. if someone u were really into invited u over to timbuktu. (I think)
My gut feeling however, is to let this incident slide and just try to get back to being happy together.. BUT if he pulls another stunt like that or gives u any bullshit like that.. then, say bye bye
2006-10-09 22:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately give him a chance to explain why he lied and why he felt afraid to tell me immediately that he did not want me to go with him. Also, I would want to know why he did not want me there. He deserve to explain himself but be wary and do not trust him too much. A liar is always a liar.
2006-10-09 20:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be telling you WHY he did that and have a good reason. At the very least, make him suffer for a while. That was an assh*le move. I would dump his ***. He obviously doesn't respect you.
2006-10-09 20:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 03:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by marceau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋