he so treats me right.probably the best relationship ive been in years.but my question is it right fir me to feel bad when like he gets a new car for his wife and he gets me an expensive perfume.im in love with him thi so i dont need any haters telling me its not right to date a marrid guy.heard it all before........................
2006-10-09 20:27:34 · 21 answers · asked by greybear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from the answers ive been getting i think i havent given enough info.in my country its ok to marry more than onr woman.i wouldnt want him to leave her and hes never told me that.oh he says hes getting me a car on my birthday which is next month.and if you didnt get my question right it was is it normal for me to feel bad if he gets his wife something more valuable than me and not should i be with this guy.
2006-10-09 21:10:39 · update #1
why wont he buy you a car?? oh yea, that's right....... your only a mistress!! should you feel bad? of course you should...... your a home wrecker!!
get your own man!!
2006-10-09 20:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to tell you to stop and you have probably heard it all before but, from A personal point of view from someone in your shoes and who now has a 10 yr old by that love of my life. Unless you are able to have a relationship without what you have already done, you know fallen in love, then I hate to say it but, pull your heart out of it now,you are headed for a real heartache and these types I promise will not go away, You know I am married to another man now and love him with every breathe I take and have for the last 8 years but when I look at my 10 yr old daugther and see her father in her eyes my heart breaks over and over again, I was that in love with him, you see he just wasn't in love with me that way and never will be he is still with his wife and has had 5 more relationship like the one we had,he has not even seen his daughter sinceshe was 6 months old and says he never will want to she her. You see if he is seeing you behind her back and even if he left her for you what do you think he would do behind your back I mean he's married to her and he can decieve her. Thats why he bought her the new car it is how he deals with his own guilt for what he is doing . I don't think your wrong I DO THINK YOU CAN'T HELP IT, THE HEART WILL LOVE WHAT IT WILL LOVE!!There is something you can do about, tell him you will always love him much the way his wife does but, you need a man who wants to be with you and only you, because you are worth that much and more, and nothing but the best will do for you, now or ever. At least you can start tomarrow without hearing your daughter ask why her father hates her so much to not want to know her. And all the while knowing it isn't her he hates, but you for having her.
2006-10-09 20:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by paula9367 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If hes cheating with you what makes you think he wont cheat on you. You should feel bad point blank cause you are a homewrecker. When hes with you thats a fantasy when hes with her thats his reality.
How do you compare perfume to a car, that expensive perfume he bought you will be gone after a few pushes of the button just like you but that car he bought is wife will stay around alot longer.
Your dumb because if she found out about u he would leave you at a drop of a dime. GET A CLUE
2006-10-09 20:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So then what is your question? If you truly see nothing wrong with potentially breaking up a marriage then no one can make you see it. I mean you are the one who has to look at her self in mirror and know what you are doing. You know he will never leave his wife even though he probably told you he will. It is your choice, it is your life, and remember what goes around, comes around.
2006-10-09 20:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by tasha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey Im dating a married man....though he's legally separated and no way would he buy her anything. are you thinking he is going to leave his wife for you? why would he buy her a car if he was planning on leaving. sounds to me like he has what he wants. you might wanna step back a bit or see if he really wants to be with you and you only. it worked for me. you just gotta let him know that you wont be just another girl on the side
2006-10-09 20:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. No it's not right for you to feel bad. the wife gets the car, the mistress gets the perfume.
2006-10-09 20:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he is greedy.. he have a wife that he still go home to(with a new car).. and with you, he probably just want to do the deed or for you to be there for him when he need you after a fight with his wife.. and all u get is an expensive perfume..i think you should leave him..its not worth it..
2006-10-09 20:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep w/dogs You wake up w/fleas or maybe ticks. Get used to it. So hear it 1 more time you both are wrong, and both will get what you deserve in the end.
2006-10-09 20:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will never be number one.
He will never leave her.
You will spend holidays alone etc
Don't you think you are worth a man of your own?
And if you did have a man of your own, would you want him to have a long going affair with someone like you?
2006-10-09 20:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally dont think it's so wrong to see a married guy,(as long as you know what your getting into/what your doing....................................anyway to the question, yes it is wrong to be jelious. you've got to understand that your place is to be the other woman,so you've got to accept all that intells. He's got to understand that flaunting or letting you know what he is doing for his wife,can be hurtful, & to be more discreet about certain things!
Hope that helps! good luck & be careful!
2006-10-09 20:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Scorpio Rising 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋