just be with someone not related to me? Help!
2006-10-09 20:12:37 · 24 answers · asked by isabela d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep it in the family girl ,make yur daddy proud!
2006-10-09 20:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by mister-fister 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
It does happen to people from time to time, but they keep these kind of things private, for the sake of the family's bond. It does break the love of the family and the bond loose when the love relationships happens between relatives. So, you may keep being in crush on the cousin but 'don't break it out'. Any way, this is my opion, only.
2006-10-09 20:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rinchen Tsering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think (personally) .. that such a kinship love does not prove very fruitful... But its still reasonable if
1) Your cousin is really interested in you. and can take a strong stand in future if any issue arises. Otherwise you might end up loosing a whole bunch of relationships from that family. and it will be a composite loss suffered by all members of your family for just you guys fault.
2) You both are of proper age to understand true love .. coz merely the freedom to meet someone more than the normal friends makes us believe we've started to like this person.. Only knowledge about true love can bring you out of such deja-vu. Speak to your Mom, elders or close family relatives, about responsibilities attached with a married life. You'll be able to make a better decision.
Grow yourself ... read more.. learn more about topics you like... indulge yourself in creative activities ... once you develop yourself .. you'll understand better about your own desires and needs in your life partner... make a decision then ... It wont be wrong if you then choose your cousin as your partner. Your parents needs to believe in you .. and only you can project yourself as a grown up who can make their own decision.
All attraction cannot be certified as infatuation, there can be true love hidden amongst them somewhere. Its not that easy to find it out ...
But always remember that only true love can survive testing and stand tall. so put your attraction to test and see for yourself.
I would rather suggest you to concentrate on your studies and develop yourself as a reward for your future spouse (may it even be your cousin) than thinking about it now and spoiling your precious time.
Let love come gradually. on its own
Best of Luck
2006-10-09 20:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by Frank_walker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are probably going to tell you it's wrong. While i'm not up for it myself, I don't think it's bad if you like him/her and they like you back. If it's just a crush that you think will die out, you're better off with someone you're not related to.
2006-10-09 20:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by RePat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no wrong of having on crush on your cousin,but remember marrying people who is the same blood flows with u is not really good.
2006-10-09 20:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by vsiong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cousin is your blood line ,so not a good idea .I understand when I was much younger I had a major crush on a cousin but cant go there .now im glad I didnt .
2006-10-09 20:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 03:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by carrera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never see family members as having a penis...it is wrong, and you know it. Someone NOT related to you----some things are to be left in the imagination zone...
2006-10-09 20:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by jakkibluu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely WRONG! Genetically and morally. Relatives quite often have deformaties or problems when they reproduce. Look outside of the family unit for sure.
2006-10-09 20:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by kermarek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please have ur own sense of responsibility ..
Its not long to love , your cousin or who ever .. all that matters is love .. But also have the courage to face your parents and family members in a mature manner and that will happen only after you feel you really love him .
2006-10-09 20:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family love in ur past? I suggest you break the tradition. It's morally and legally wrong and you should look elsewhere...outside your family to see if you feel any sparks with anyone else.
2006-10-09 20:19:54 · answer #11 · answered by thedaybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋