So me and this chick went out once about a month ago. She said she had a great time, and her friends said how cool I was. The date ended with a hug, although there was one point I think I could have kissed her, but I wasn't feeling it. Anyway, I have asked her to go out with me a couple times afterwards, and she said yes, but something came up. I'm not mad or anything. I just brushed it off, and we're still talking. In fact, I called her three times last weekend, and she answered all of them. And when we talk in person, she gives me all the positive signs--brushing her hair, body imaging, smiling at me a lot, looking into my eyes. It's just that I can't seem to make her commit physically. Is she just playing hard to get? If so, what can I do to make her take the full leap? I know that if we go out on a second date, I'm gonna go in and kiss her. She's freaking gorgeous, and I won't stop unless she tells me to **** off.
2006-10-09 20:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your funny and do just as you say. How to get her on a second date will take just more than asking. Set it up without the traditional " I'll pick you up at 8". Or "Are you free on Friday"
Get creative. Have a rose with a note with just a day a time and a place, have it deliver( leaving no name on the card.)
you could get the help from a friend of hers and have her in a place that would be a great place for a picnic. Have everything she likes in the basket and walk up and let the date begin
friends will know to leave. I am sure you would only have to do something to that nature once.
Just an idea
2006-10-09 20:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first .... Did you buy insurance ???? Because when she makes that leap your going to get hurt .... You need to grow up a little more . Be a little more mature . Sounds like to me that your asking every one for their opinion and what they say is what your believing ....Stay with your own gut feeling . If it feels right then do it . Be strong and respectful at the same time . You will earn a lot more respect yourself by being yourself .
2006-10-09 20:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not giving you mixed signals.
A good woman will tell you she's rejecting you but do it in a kind way especially after as many tries as you've given it.
You could try asking her why she keeps ______you around and if there' something wrong that can be fixed.
Love yourself!
2006-10-09 20:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by David K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away Dude. The world is full of dames. I can tell from your letter you are a good person. You deserve someone who appreciates that.
2016-03-28 03:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to go out and do ur thing i think she is playing hard to get
2006-10-09 21:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by jesica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her seduce you that way ..u dont get told you were too pushy and she has no regrets you were too forward...
2006-10-09 20:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not interested. she is only flirting to show her power over you. don't waste anymore time, move on
2006-10-09 23:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either she is unsure or just plain playing you...... ask her out again and you will know...... if she has an excuse again for not going you will know she is playing you, BIG TIME !!!! sorry, but this is how i see it......... God bless
2006-10-09 20:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋