In other words, does it turn you off when you suddenly find out that the person you're attracted to is already with someone?
2006-10-09 20:02:04 · 12 answers · asked by Jose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seeing that person with someone else does not mean that the qualities you admired have gone away. It simply means that you ought to take a step back and admire from afar so as not to interfere but that should not mean backing off completely if you are already friends. Just distant enough not to get either of you hurt.
2006-10-09 20:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by maytee h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're with someone i think isn't good enough for them i want them even more. I've recently had this happen. I had a big crush on a lady from work for about a year now and she recently got into a relationship with a really nice guy and I've totally moved on. Look at it like this: She's happy with the person she's with, why interfere with that? It would be selfish.
2006-10-09 20:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I like this person but turns out that he belongs to someone, the only message that I get is to find somebody else...there's so many fishes in the ocean...why would I waste my time liking him...
2006-10-09 20:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by atlanta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liking a person is different from loving a person. If she is not married, you can still admire her but to pursue her other than for friendship purposes is not ethical. Just be friends with her for the meantime, who knows?
But if she is married, be friends but stay distant friends. I should stress stay distant....So as not to get burned by fire.
2006-10-09 20:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, back off a bit. Dont be obsessive, if they are meant to be, they will be, if not than you can get at them. But for now, just stay low and dont wait around. What happens happens.
2006-10-09 20:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Elley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your feeling dont stop but u must not under any cicumstances pursue that person. if u were attracted 2 nelly would u stop liking him if he had a gf., most likely not but over time you'll stop thinking about him.
2006-10-09 20:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope infact i think it makes you want that person even more....because we always want what we can't have.....and far as liking someone....we can't control are feelings if you like that person then you like that person....so its not a matter of do you stop liking them....what matters is what you feel for that person and will it ever ware off.
2006-10-09 20:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, theres no point in trying to pursue something if they are already in a relationship.
2006-10-09 20:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt stop liking them. you should remain friendly. then wait for oppourtunity to knock. when they break up youll be on the sideline with a shoulder to cry on.
2006-10-09 20:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the most normal as sane reaction otherwise you will feel jealous and get angry also.
2006-10-09 20:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋