Do you know about dreams ?

Question

My question is I have alot of dreams ,and the most part is they are always about my husband having a affair ,and this happens at least 3 times a week ,its upsetting even tho Iknow it is a dream .Im like ok what is going on in my head ??also my grandmother that passed 5 years ago always at her house packing her things ,these dreams are the ones that keep coming back .do you have any clue as to why .?my husband did cheat on me 3 years ago but I feel like im over it now .what yah think??

Answer 1

I studied dreams as part of a course I took in school. They are interesting and in depth. They do mean things. As for your husband, cheating, you said he had an affair 3 years ago. The truth is you have not forgiven him and you are reliving the pain in your dreams because you can't discuss it with him. It's part of the past to him but not to you. You have not had closure to it. I suffered the same fate, and suffered dreams. It's hard. You are only hurting yourself. This is what you need to do. Clear your head, go for a walk, whatever it takes but be alone. Think clearly. Do you think he is cheating now? IN YOUR HEART? IF not, you need to let go...this is how...if you choose to forgive....you must forgive....it's hard we want details...let it go...I can tell you personally what I do to let it go...but you need to let it go....stop,,if you think he's cheating confront him. You know. You know you have been there. Don't kid yourself. Don't lie to yourself. The dreams will stop.
As for your grandmother...another instance of you not letting go...
your grandmother is packing to tell you she is leaving...you are not letting her go.....let her go...tell her it's okay....your glad she is at peace....she can't leave you until you except it. You have not excepted it, not really. When my mother passed, I dreamed she was standing in line to the cemetary, weird, but I too would not let her go...finally I needed to except it, and the dreams stop and good dreams came.
Honey, as for your husband and his cheating, you never get over it. you just learn to except the things you cannot change. We still love them and in time we learn to trust them not quite the same but we do trust them again, We hope the hell we put them through they never want to cheat again. Right?

Answer 2

I think you seem very conservative towards your marriage and there is absolutely nothing wrong in that.I think you think all the time about your husband having an affair, it may be because he has cheated on you before so basically you are worried about that happening again and that is exactly what is reflecting in your dreams.
Often dreams our reflect what we think during the day time.There may be a case that you don't think about it as much but there is that hidden fear somewhere in your mind that it will happen again.
May be you have seen a lot of such things in your personal life, may be with your relatives, your friend circle, etc. and that has affected your mind in a very bad way.
I think you need your husband as to why did he do what he did and ask him exactly what does he expects from and also tell him what do you expect from him and with that as you start having more and more faith in your husband then I am sure such dreams will never bother you again.

Answer 3

Well, it seems the fact that your husband cheated on you has injured you more than you think. I'm no expert but, I think you still have very serious trust issues with your husband. Can't blame you for that. re your grandmother - I guess you are remembering her leaving. Did she have a long illness? She's packing - getting ready to leave. I wish I knew more about analyzing dreams. Then I could understand my own.

Answer 4

Dreams don't mean nothing. They are strange manifestation of neural activity when you sleep. I don't believe that dreams can tell you what will happen in future. (although some entrepreneurs will disagree with me) However, dreams don't work with some absurd material but with material that is stored in your brain. Your memories, your thoughts. And as both events did leave a big impact on you they seem to be the material of your dreams more often. I don't think that you are over your husbands cheating.

Answer 5

Dreams have been a mystery to us since Adam first breathed life. The stuff of legends, myth and fairy tale, dreams have always fascinated mankind. We can learn much from our dreams, if we only but listen with a trained ear. There is nothing psychic about understanding dreams. There is a certain degree of intuition, coupled with logic and a working knowledge of dreaming involved though.

Answer 6

Listen to ya dream or get counselor or ask ya best friend to help you overcome ya past do something good for ya self be strong and let the dream go try yoga and do something that makes you happy if ya still having dreams about ya hubby affair in ya past tell me what bothering you go get ya self a second chance at happiness

Answer 7

generally dreams reflect our priorities, I feel that you have that notion of your husband cheating on you permanently etched in your mind, this might have reflected in your dreams. It is better you discuss such issues openly with your husband and clarify for yourself that no such situation is there. This will calm your mind and you will get a sound sleep.

Answer 8

Basically, you're feeling insecured about your relationship. Go for a trip with your hubby and hopefully both of you can work out and I believed you will dream of something else instead. Good luck.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

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