I met this guy a while ago, we hit it off for hours, but I was drunk & he was hot & I ended up sleeping w/ him. I definitely didnt plan it that way & brushed it off as a 1-night stand. He called me 2 days later, & then 2 weeks later to chat briefly. A month or so went by & I stopped into the bar he works at as I was in the area, but he was working too late to get 2gether. A month passes. He calls me, again to say hi, & suggested we get 2gether. So we actually made plans. We went out for drinks, stopped into his apt., had amazing sex, and then went out more. He paid for everything, held my hand, kissed me when we were out, etc. He told me he thinks Im a nice girl, etc..which I am, ha. Then before i left he mentioned getting together for dinner. Is he just calling me when he wants sex and being a very skilled player, or could it be more? Am I just in his little black book? I do enjoy him and the sex but I dont want to just be the booty call or get hurt by getting attached or wanting more
2006-10-09 19:42:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm, something tells me that he enjoys your company (as well as you do) otherwise, you would have ignored him and turned down the plans of getting together.
he probably feels very secured when you are around him so he makes you feel like he wants more of you.
it is still too soon to tell whether or not its just sex or something deeper. one, you never dated without sex and two, you only had about two or three dates with him.
if you feel comfortable with him, then follow your instinct, and your heart. if love is inevitable, then the relationship will grow.
2006-10-09 19:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ever communicate? did you get to talk or just small talk and sex?
you do not need anyone to tell you what is going on. if you do not know now, you can figure it out. it is either all about sex and having a good time or there is some serious conversation going on. i do not mean what are you going to call the kids, but what you like and what you like to do beside sex.
do you have any common interests or do you even know? if you are old enough to drink then you are old enough to know when to stop. this is true for alcohol and booty call.
2006-10-10 23:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by Vivian Vixen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give him some time but absolutely without sex so that u may understand him better. he may be in love wid u and i think that u r in love wid him. try to cath the things in his mind . and get together he may be a true lover.
just test him refuse to have sex at least at three different occasions and ask some other time about your love relationship.
and since u said he was talking about ur togetherness so he may actually want it .
go and follow these things .
have fun
dont let his thoughts revolve around u all day and night.
2006-10-09 19:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by cool chap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOO LATE 4 THAT PIMP. its been said a million times but still u dont listen. never put yourself n a drunk situation but since u did ill just say this, at least he wasnt a cold hearted booty call. it just goes 2 show u cant have your cake and eat it 2 without getting sick afterwards anyway.
2006-10-09 19:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How in the world could you ever have given away a part of yourself, and then now consider that he's worth going out with? This whole thing is really more horrible than what you think. If defies words.
2006-10-09 19:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to see what you really are to him, then go on a date with him and don't have sex. Let him take you out for dinner and drinks...and then head home alone. If he still makes plans for another date, then he has genuine feelings for you.
2006-10-09 20:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didnt want it to be just a booty call u should have fell in love first that would have been a plus...
2006-10-09 19:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably sex and a little more right now. See if he really takes you to dinner and go from there.
2006-10-09 20:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are his booty call when he can't score somewhere else. You deserve better.
2006-10-09 19:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a kind of girl are you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He just want to have sex with you,,,,don't think he will marry you.
2006-10-09 19:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by thara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋